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  • gegil@sopuli.xyz
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    1 month ago

    Why am i learning computer science in university, but all guys in my group are ugly transphobes?

    • Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Some universities are less inclusive than others, sadly.

      Even in my (mostly) inclusive one in California, I get a lot of emails from the admin saying “Treat others with respect, we condemn incidents A,B,C, and please stop writing hateful slogans on statues and the sidewalk”.

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      1 month ago

      For some, it’s not an easy process to come to terms with who they truly are. Sometimes, there’s a lot of self-loathing involved.

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        1 month ago

        But for others it is nearly impossible to have a though that judging and humiliating such people is bad, and that they should not do that.

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        I taught myself to just ignore weird comments from people. Like for example i hear “Your ugly!1!!1!”, i pretend that people talk for somebody else who is ugly, because i know that i am beautiful.

        • Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zonedeleted by creatorOP
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          Yeah no, fuck those people. You are beautiful and they’re stupid for not seeing that. I appreciate you 🩷