• rethnor@lemmy.zip
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      2 days ago

      Nude beaches aren’t an all you rape buffet, so it shouldn’t matter what you do or don’t wear.

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      7 days ago

      Yeah, if I’m wearing something slutty that’s a signal I may be open to flirtation, not that it’s ok to sexually violate me.

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        6 days ago

        If I’m wearing something slutty, it probably means I want sex.

        It doesn’t mean that I want sex with you in particular. (General you, not you-in-particular, just to be clear.)

        This is the thing that escapes most men.

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          4 days ago

          Yep! And also sometimes it means I misjudged my outfit or it’s way too hot out and I wanted to look nice. But yeah usually I’m trying to be flirtatious, but flirtatious doesn’t mean everyone gets a ride on me.

        • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneM
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          5 days ago

          I always wonder what the rules are for people that think like this. Skirt 2 inches above the knee? Not giving permission for sex with anyone. But 4 inches? permission granted! How does their mind work?