• rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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    10 hours ago

    Wouldn’t the easy way out of that issue be to either seek out gay men or men who are in a relationship?

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      10 hours ago

      As a man I kind of do the opposite, most of the girls I hang with are lesbian. That removes a lot of misunderstandings automatically and we can just vibe!

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      Wouldn’t that be treating single straight men as if they’re inherently dangerous? Is that what you recommend?

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        8 hours ago

        Where did you get “dangerous” from? She wants to find people who want the same thing as she does, and evidently she didn’t have luck trying to find a friend among single hetero/bi men. So why not try a different group of men?

        Anyway, feel free to offer alternative strategies.