• MakingWork@lemmy.ca
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    1 day ago

    Yeah! I like my fake validation and fake likes from anonymous friends over here on lemmy. Fake friends are overrated.

    • The Quuuuuill@slrpnk.net
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      the secret is i don’t think anyone on lemmy is my friend. i find everyone here frustrating and annoying! the system works!

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          Damn,… Ruffalo looks young in this picture… then I realize, he was and we all got fucking old. This was 13 years ago!!!

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            Yep! Wait until you have kids that are older than your co-workers.

            Source: My kids are older than many of my co-workers. It sucks.

            The only way to fight it is to stay fit as fuck. Oh and retire early like I did. Takes some of the pain out of getting older!

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              23 hours ago

              Exactly my plan my friend! Why bother grinding if you can’t afford anything? Better grind less and live more.

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                I did that and “retired” to a ski resort in my mid 20s and pursued snowboarding instead. I’ve worked a variety of odd jobs to feed the habit and I’m lucky to be talented enough to be flowed gear.

                If working a corporate 40 hr a week job that requires a degree doesn’t pay enough for me to move out of my moms house in NY and get an apt of my own somewhere nearby then fuck it, I’ll take some nonsense jobs and move to where I want and leave the grind entirely. My life is their $20k vacation. I’ve had more powder days than those rats in the race.

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                Agreed. I basically took early retirement–I’m 55.

                My pension is small since I bailed early, but I have zero debt, and very few bills, so I get by just fine. My kids are grown. My house and cars are paid off. Property taxes here are very low.

                Sure, I won’t be traveling the world, but the park next to my house is beautiful, and I can see the mountains from my front porch. All is good.

                Good luck to ya, mate!

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                  Hell yeah, that sounds like the way to do it. I’m much the same way, being a decade younger and having a kid that will be 18 in a decade. If you are able, why not make your own home into your favorite place to be?

                  I don’t have mountains to look at but I built a koi pond in the back yard. There are a lot of birds in the trees out there, plus we have a bunch of other pets of our own. Just chilling and observing natural beauty and being in that moment can be so nice.

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                    You’re on your way brother. The children being grown when you get to the decade that you retire is the big game changer I think. I love my kids, and I actually thought about having more a few years ago, but financially just wasn’t something I could wing.

                    Plus I worked in an elementary school for my last few days of work, so they sorta all became my kids. And I still volunteer there, so it’s worked out for me.

                    Now, if my kids would have kids so I could at least have grandbabies, then hey! All the better! lol

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      There’s a pretty big difference between drinking mild poisons at a Nazi bar and a local bar. Zoomed out, sure, drinking alcohol at all can be considered pretty dubious, but the difference between the two scenarios remains.

      edit: replace what autocorrect put as “consistent” to “considered”