This just makes me wonder how you even would sexualise men ?
I’m a lesbian, so I have no inherent understanding of what makes a man attractive, and society doesn’t really spell it out… Men are supposedly attractive “per se” just by being men, which doesn’t make any sense to me 😅
Oh I absolutely believe you that there are, it’s just close to impossible for me to tell an average guy from a supposedly attractive one. Unless someone is obviously conventionally ugly, there is no qualifiable difference to me ; they’re all just guys.
As a cis man, I find the same. I know that people say Tom Cruise, Rob Lowe are good looking as is Jason Mamoa…but I wouldn’t be able to tell you who is better looking or why. I can sort it out better with women, but its still just personal attraction and not overall beauty. Like I have no clue what makes people see one actress more attractive than another, they are all just generically good symmetry to me.
This just makes me wonder how you even would sexualise men ?
I’m a lesbian, so I have no inherent understanding of what makes a man attractive, and society doesn’t really spell it out… Men are supposedly attractive “per se” just by being men, which doesn’t make any sense to me 😅
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Nah there are ugly dudes and attractive dudes
Oh I absolutely believe you that there are, it’s just close to impossible for me to tell an average guy from a supposedly attractive one. Unless someone is obviously conventionally ugly, there is no qualifiable difference to me ; they’re all just guys.
As a cis man, I find the same. I know that people say Tom Cruise, Rob Lowe are good looking as is Jason Mamoa…but I wouldn’t be able to tell you who is better looking or why. I can sort it out better with women, but its still just personal attraction and not overall beauty. Like I have no clue what makes people see one actress more attractive than another, they are all just generically good symmetry to me.