As a cis man, I find the same. I know that people say Tom Cruise, Rob Lowe are good looking as is Jason Mamoa…but I wouldn’t be able to tell you who is better looking or why. I can sort it out better with women, but its still just personal attraction and not overall beauty. Like I have no clue what makes people see one actress more attractive than another, they are all just generically good symmetry to me.