• Jeom@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    i dont get why people are so against her, i totally see where shes coming from and you could prob finish your breakfast in 15 mins, its not like she did anything she just told him her situation.

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      9 months ago

      Would have been totally fine if she said “hey I have a friend coming in 15, do you think I could have your table then?”, but she didn’t. She decided to be arrogant about it so fuck her ¯⁠\⁠(⁠°⁠_°)⁠/⁠¯

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        9 months ago

        We really don’t know what she said because we’re relying on only one POV

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      9 months ago

      She explicitly told him to “hurry up and finish so we can take your place” which is a ludicrous demand to a stranger.

      You can ask politely if the stranger will be leaving soon, or even offer to pay for their meal with the condition that they leave, but making a demand of a stranger that has an exactly equal right to something that you want is very rude, no matter what appeal to emotion you couple it with.

      • PumaStoleMyBluff@lemmy.world
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        9 months ago

        I do think it’s pretty rude but we don’t actually know that’s a direct quote, it might just be how the tweeter interpreted what they asked. If those actually are the words she used, then yes that’s inexcusable, but given twitter, I think that’s unlikely.

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          9 months ago

          Knowing people, the above is easily a completely verboten quote.

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            9 months ago

            verboten

            𝕯𝖎𝖊𝖘𝖊 𝕶𝖔𝖒𝖒𝖊𝖓𝖙𝖆𝖗𝖘𝖊𝖐𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓 𝖎𝖘𝖙 𝖓𝖚𝖓 𝕰𝖎𝖌𝖊𝖓𝖙𝖚𝖒 𝖉𝖊𝖗 𝕭𝖚𝖓𝖉𝖊𝖘𝖗𝖊𝖕𝖚𝖇𝖑𝖎𝖐 𝕯𝖊𝖚𝖙𝖘𝖈𝖍𝖑𝖆𝖓𝖉

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      9 months ago

      There’s being nice, and then there’s being a pushover. Don’t be a pushover. This lady had zero manners or consideration of that person. 100% selfish. I see absolutely no reason to be accommodating to that.

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        9 months ago

        i see no problem in people seeing my as a pussy, something like eating faster takes so little effort and shes not taking anything from me. its not like im trying to assert my dominance as someone big that wont be bossed around. i am happy as the way i am and something so small wont come close to touching my ego.

        i know i might be part of the problem encouraging this behaviour but i aint got time for that. hanlon’s razor: never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity