A 14-year-old boy allegedly fatally shot his older sister in Florida after a family argument over Christmas presents, officials said Tuesday.

The teen had been out shopping on Christmas Eve with Abrielle Baldwin, his 23-year-old sister, as well as his mother, 15-year-old brother and sister’s children, Pinellas County Sheriff Bob Gualtieri said during a news conference.

The teenage brothers got into an argument about who was getting more Christmas presents.

“They had this family spat about who was getting what and what money was being spent on who, and they were having this big thing going on in this store,” Gualtieri said.

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      As the 2nd amendment says:

      A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, well-regulated militias shall have the right to keep and bear arms. Also, in a twist completely unrelated to that other sentence, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed. I’m talking rifles, muskets, flintlocks, hell, even futuristic weapons nobody’s invented yet. Not part of a militia? Doesn’t matter. Completely unregulated? That’s right. Also, by ‘people’ we mean everyone: kids, witches, the addled, it’s a free for all!

      Of course, most people only know the final trimmed-down edited version of that amendment. The original was much better, IMO.

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          Trying to regulate the weapons used in our hellscape dystopia is just a method of maintaining the hellscape and avoiding any real change to society at large.

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            avoiding any real change to society at large.

            So which changes would you suggest to help solve this problem?

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          That those kids got the guns illegally and would have done so regardless of what laws were in place? That point?

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            Ah yes, the “If it’s not going to stop 100% of the problem, let’s not do it at all” bullshit.

            That old chestnut.

            If random check stops don’t stop 100% of drunk drivers, why do them at all. Your just punishing the drivers who AREN’T driving drunk!

            If seatbelts don’t save 100% of lives, why regulate that we wear them. Muh Freedums!!

            It bullshit excuses made by people with literally nothing of any real sense to fall back on.

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              Not on that guy’s side, but he didn’t strictly say that we shouldn’t have those laws.

              He said that if you’re siteing a case where we did have those laws and a bad thing happened as an example for why we need laws like that in place to stop the bad thing from happening, it falls a little flat.

              Not that the idea of having laws like that is bad, but citing individual cases is flawed, as no amount of regulatory structure will ever prevent 100% of cases.

              To frame it a different way, I could argue that there’s literally no country on earth with strong enough gun laws, because there’s no country with zero gun deaths. I could argue that we need random searches of people homes to try and find guns, or imprisoning people who talk about guns, because the current laws clearly aren’t good enough because people are still getting shot. Doesn’t matter if it was only 1 incident in the past 30yrs. Still happened, so we need stricter laws.

              That’s obviously an absurd level of hyperbole, and I want to reiterate that I’m all for regulation on firearms. Just wanted to point out that the core argument here is unideal.

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                The guy said “would have done so regardless of what laws were in place”.

                As in, this happened, and there are already laws, so there’s no point in stronger laws or more restrictions.

                That’s like saying “Sure, there are hundreds of fatalities in this factory, but they already get 10c fines whenever there’s an at-fault accident. The accidents would have happened regardless of the fines! There’s no point in higher fines since the fines have shown they’re not working!”

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                  That’s all valid, but I think you’ve missed my point.

                  While I disagree with “the laws did nothing so why have laws,” I also disagree with, “the laws didn’t work, so we need harsher laws.” Both are flawed logically.

                  There is, in fact, a level of restriction that goes too far in the name of preventing crime. We could lock everyone in jail for instance, as people in cages can’t commit crimes (ymmv). That’s obviously a bad idea though, for many reasons.

                  And I’m with you. I think we need to evaluate what that right balance is. What I was pushing back on was the idea that, “if there’s even one gun death ever, then the laws didn’t go far enough, and we need more restrictions,” which I took to be the sentiment of the OP. That lack of nuance worries me is all.

                  I don’t know if the gun laws that were violated were good enough or not. I didn’t look them up, tbh. But you can have all the laws in the world, and have them be completely useless if they aren’t properly enforced. Maybe the laws are actually good, and the enforcement mechanism is flawed? Maybe both are good and this is just an unfortunate side effect of it being impossible to police everyone all the time. Or maybe the laws themselves are flawed and the OP is right that something needs changing. I don’t know. But I do know that it’s a big issue with a lot of nuance, and that a knee jerk reaction of “we need more laws” is unhelpful at best and detrimental at worst.

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              Imagine applying that logic to anything else:

              “He would have been murdered regardless of what laws were in place. There’s no reason to change the penalty for murder! The 10c fine already ensures that only criminals will murder other people.”

              “The city already has a firefighter, and the city block still burned down! What’s the point in adding more firefighters if we already have a firefighter and we still get major fires?”

              The kids got the guns illegally because it’s incredibly easy to get illegal guns in the US. The biggest reason for that is that it’s so incredibly easy to get legal guns too. In places like Japan or England where it’s hard to get legal guns, it’s extremely hard to get illegal guns, so the criminals tend not to use illegal guns.

              If “would have done so regardless” were true, there should be no difference in gun crime in the UK vs the US. But, they’re not. It’s not because the US has far more of a problem with mental illness or something, it’s because the tool designed for killing is harder to get.

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              Well, in MY state random stops ARE illegal. Thanks Oregon! Frankly, I’m surprised more states haven’t done that.

              https://romanolawpc.com/oregon-dui-checkpoints/

              There are things that CAN be done, you just have to start with rejecting the idea of “hurrr durrr take all the guns” because that can’t be done due to the 2nd amendment.

              In THIS case, we know the two kids already had priors for car burglaries.

              So #1) You find out who legally owned those guns, then you charge them with improper storage and/or failure to report a stolen weapon.

              #2) When kids are arrested for a crime like burglary, you search their homes to make sure weapons weren’t anything that were burgled.

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                “The solution to ensuring our freedom to own guns is to restrict all our other freedoms. “

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                  Really? Well, what would your solution be?

                  Keep in mind, banning guns is not an option because of the 2nd Amendment and changing the 2nd amendment is currently a political impossibility.

                  Sooo? Thoughts?

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            regardless of what laws were in place?

            Oh come on, regardless of where you stand on the issue, you can’t think of any change in law could contain that would prevent someone from getting a gun?

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              FTA:

              “Both teens have prior arrests for car burglaries.”

              Seems likely they stole the guns from cars, so maybe make it illegal to keep your gun in your car?

              Hard to say until the gun origins are traced back, but they weren’t legally purchased by or for the kids.

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                Seems likely they stole the guns from cars, so maybe make it illegal to keep your gun in your car?

                Hmm, so the source of the guns were the cars that were broken into. Hmm, yes. So what law can you imagine that would have even prevented the option for those gun owners to keep guns in their cars? C’mon, you’ve got this. Hint: How did the car owners get the guns?

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                  Nothing that could be blocked because of the 2nd amendment. You can’t prevent people from legally owning guns.

                  Now, if you want to get rid of the 2nd amendment, we have a process for that…

                  First you get 290 votes in the House, then you get 67 votes in the Senate, then you get ratification from 38 states, so all 25 Biden states +13 Trump states.

                  Good luck with that!

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                maybe make it illegal to keep your gun in your car?

                Unfortunately this is not possible. There are many businesses and such that have signs to the effect of “no guns in here.” In some states those signs hold no legal weight, but in some they do. In states where they do hold legal weight, your choice becomes

                1. Just never carry because the grocery store I’ll be in for 15 minutes out of my day has a sign they think will keep mass murderers out (spoiler warning: mass murderers target those signs. Not that it’s more likely you’ll get shot there necessarily, just that their signs only matter to people who aren’t about to murder 25 people, as the murderer has other crimes to worry about vs me, where I just want some damn nuggies so prison actually matters to me.)

                2. Carry in the store illegally. Honestly more people are doing this than you think, but as I said in some states this can become an issue for you.

                3. Leave it in the car while I’m in the grocery store. Legal, not exactly safe, but since I am literally legally forced to be unsafe: “not my fault.” If you want to charge people with leaving a gun in a locked car and then the gun gets stolen, you have to at least meet halfway and let people with a permit carry at all times and not force them to leave it in the car. You may say "just go to a competing business. Well the way my state law is set up you can’t carry in ANY bank regardless of permission, any government building, and a few more places. And I’m fine with either, make them leave it and no charge or let them carry it and charge if they don’t, but I’m not fine with “you have to leave that in the car even though you’d rather leave it in the holster, and if it gets stolen we’ll put you in prison for life.”

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                  This is not possible

                  Yes it is, you just don’t like the idea of being inconvenienced by public safety laws.

                  mass murderers target those [gun-free] signs

                  [citation needed]

                  Carry in the store illegally. Honestly more people are doing this than you think

                  This is an excellent reason to strengthen gun laws and make some examples out of the people who decide to violate the law.

                  If it gets stolen we’ll put you in prison for life.

                  Show me where this has ever happened (life in prison for having a gun stolen from you)

                  It never fails that the pro-gun argument is always just loaded with dishonest hyperbole. Guess that’s expected from a cause that has zero public benefit. Part of your argument is to just casually admit that people are illegally carrying guns all the time, and you say it like it’s some sort of argument in favor of guns…

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                  Agreed, folks who have an actual permit to carry should not be barred from normal businesses. Courthouses, government buildings, I totally get that. But leaving a gun in a grocery store parking lot is inherently more dangerous than a permitted person keeping it under their personal control.

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            Ah, so the gun was purchased legally by one of those trustworthy, responsible members of the well-regulated militia. Nothing to see here, then.

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              “Well regulated militia” didn’t mean the same thing back then.

              Well regulated = well armed and equipped.
              Militia = general public who could be called up at a moments notice for public defense.

              See:

              https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/554/570/

              “The prefatory clause comports with the Court’s interpretation of the operative clause. The “militia” comprised all males physically capable of acting in concert for the common defense.”

              So:

              “A well armed and equipped public, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.”

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                Your comment has been reported, but as you had links and appeared to be arguing in good-faith, I decided to leave it. With that said, I completely disagree with your words.

                Review Article 1, Section 8, Clauses 15-16.

                To provide for calling forth the Militia to execute the Laws of the Union, suppress Insurrections and repel Invasions;

                To provide for organizing, arming, and disciplining, the Militia, and for governing such Part of them as may be employed in the Service of the United States, reserving to the States respectively, the Appointment of the Officers, and the Authority of training the Militia according to the discipline prescribed by Congress;

                Militia was what we now call “National Guard”. Speaking from experience, as a former guardsman as well as vet in 2 other branches. Back when I went to basic, this was well discussed as a given. I’m surprised people think otherwise to this day.

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                  Unfortunately, it’s the Supreme Court who defines such things and, as cited in D.C. vs. Miller above, they very clearly set the definition as noted.

                  Since that ruling, they have further clarified it in McDonald vs. City of Chicago (necessary because Heller involved Washington D.C., which isn’t a state).

                  https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/561/742/

                  Generally when I point out these inconvenient facts the response is “well, who cares what the Supreme Court says! Get the court to reverse it!”

                  Which, sure, can be done, we saw that with Roe vs. Wade, all it took was 50 years and the appointment of one conservative judge after another.

                  In theory we could flip the court, Thomas and Alito are the two oldest members of the court and highly conservative, so electing a Democratic President in '24 and again in '28 would virtually assure flipping the court.

                  Then the problem becomes keeping it, because the next three oldest are Roberts, Sotomayor and Kagan.

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            you know those minors, always committing major felonies no matter whatcha try to do.

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            What if I told you it’s much easier to use and illegal gun when they are readily available?

            Only country where this happens regularly to not have figured anything out. Stop embarrassing yourself and just post thoughts and prayers

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              USA is not the only country with civilian gun ownership and carry being legal.

              So with such crime stats it should be your first thought that the problem is narrower (EDIT: and more USA-specific) than people having guns.

              Unless you’ve already made up your mind and now just want to somehow nail facts to it.

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                I didn’t make any argument about legal gun ownership. Guns are legal in my country and this doesn’t happen.

                Read into arguments much? You had already set your mind on what I was saying before you read it

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                  What if I told you it’s much easier to use and illegal gun when they are readily available?

                  Seemed to mean that you tie availability of legal guns with availability of illegal guns, which is not wrong, but in a working system it is insignificant.

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              The solution is to examine how these guns got out of the legal system and into the illegal system.

              The 2nd Amendment isn’t going anywhere so you can take that pipedream off the table barring 290 votes in the House, 67 votes in the Senate, and ratification from 38 states.

              So what CAN we do?

              Well…

              #1) Hold gun owners accountable for storing a gun in something like a car that can be easily be broken into or stolen.

              #2) When kids are arrested for something like burglary, you search their homes for weapons.

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                So to start with: universal registration and ID/licensing for gun ownership, and strict liability on registered owners for crimes committed by their guns.

                I’m in, sounds great.

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                  2nd Amendment. Can’t be done. “Shall not be infringed.”

                  Add to that the most recent ruling from the Supreme Court:

                  https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/597/20-843/

                  “the government must affirmatively prove that its firearms regulation is part of the historical tradition that delimits the outer bounds of the right to keep and bear arms.”

                  This is a new twist from the Supremes. Gun laws must prove that they are in keeping with “historical tradition”. So, banning felons from owning guns is allowed, there’s an historical tradition for that.

                  So if there’s no historical basis, it won’t pass muster at the Supremes.

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            If the US had gun laws similar to the rest of the world then the chances of children getting hold of them would be far lower.

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              True, but that’s not going to happen as long as the 2nd Amendment is in place and there are close to 1/2 a billion guns in the country.

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            Yeah, if only there weren’t so many millions of guns in this country that literally any pubescent dumbshit and his brother can get one illegally without any effort! But yeah no the system is flawless and the problem unfixable cool yeah I agree.

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              I’ve seen estimates of 475 million+ guns in a country of 330 million+ people, so, yeah. Tons of guns and not enough people taking securing them seriously.

              These kids being car burglars makes perfect sense too… here’s a stat from my city:

              https://katu.com/news/local/car-gun-thefts-increase-portland-police-say

              "Kapp said nearly half of stolen gun reports from that last 15 months were firearms stolen from personal vehicles.

              “That’s 47% of guns are stolen because they were stored in a vehicle; either the vehicle was broken into or the vehicle is stolen with a gun inside. That is a huge number,” said Kapp.

              Kapp said gun owners should also have documentation, like serial numbers, in secure, safe spaces."

              You would think by now that people would know “Don’t leave ANYTHING of value in your car!” but apparently not!

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            EXACTLY RIGHT! That’s why need to outlaw Abortion, have speed limits, make fraud illegal, make murder and illegal and keep all other laws in place! Because laws DON’T WORK!

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        Not owned, but easy and unhindered access to one. That is the problem : Way too many guns for way too little brains.

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          Agreed, and based on their rap sheets for car burglaries, a likely source of the guns.

          Which goes back to the two points I made in other posts:

          1. Any dumbass who keeps a gun unsecured in their car needs to be held accountable.

          2. When these kids were busted for burglaries, their homes needed to be searched for any and all stolen goods ESPECIALLY stolen guns.

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        I don’t recall the forefathers mentioning the age for gun ownership. Toddlers need to protect themselves against perverted republicans. #babyArms

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          It wasn’t the founders, it was the Gun Control Act of 1968 that blocked anyone under the age of 18 from owning a long gun and anyone under the age of 21 from owning a pistol.

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        Ignore the mob. They know nothing but insults. It’s a damn echo chamber in here.

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    Jesus.

    The 14 year old brother shot his 23 year old sister.

    Then the 15 year old brother shot the 14 year old brother, and disposed of the handgun.

    The 23 year old sister is dead. The 14 year old brother is stable.

    The 14 year old is being charged with first degree murder. The 15 year old is being charged with attempted first degree murder.

    The sister had a child, which was not harmed.

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        …and preventable. Emotional teenagers should not have access to firearms!

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          Emotional teenagers should not have access to firearms!

          Emotional humans should not have access to firearms, except under exceptional circumstances.

          The US military knows this and it’s why most people on military bases are not allowed to walk around armed, though they all have access to weapons when necessary.

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          Well legally they don’t have access to firearms. They also shouldn’t have access to Heroin, and legally they don’t, but it killed 3 of my friends before we even graduated, so in practice…

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                As a gun owner, yea I fucking agree. Get a co cenceal carry and carry that shit in and out of the car. Di not leave and and do not leave it visible. Responsible gun owners don’t have any of these issues. But look at the area the kids were in and the illegal shit they were already doing, that shit is being overlook by almost everyone here just cause a gun was involved. Ffs.

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                honestly if your gun is stolen you should be charged with anything that happens with it too. thats actually genius no sarcasm. and an extra charge that it was able to be stolen in the first place.

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                  Stuff getting stolen is a fact of life no matter how secure. Maybe in cases of negligence, but if it’s locked up then someone breaking the lock shouldn’t mean you’re considered a party to the crime they use it for

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      The 23 year old sister had 2 children, one of which was already 6 years old, if my reading skills aren’t failing me.

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        This reads like a shitty math problem.

        Jamal, 14M, shoots his 23 year old sister, Abriele, dead. Abriele had a 6 year old son How many years will it take for the 6 year old to be old enough to kill his Uncle in cold blood on Christmas? And what age will Jamal be?

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      Apparently the sister died from drowning on her OWN blood.

      Anyway, merry jolly Christmas everyone!

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      The sister had a child, which was not harmed.

      I thought you said “armed”, and if only… if that kid had been packing he could have been the good guy with a gun who would have mowed down all the bad guys and saved the day.

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    More guns in the hands of the other children would have kept this travesty from occurring. #hopesandprayers

    'Murica!

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      If the 11-month old was armed, all this could have been stopped!

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    The bullet traveled through her left arm and into her chest, popping both of her lungs. She suffered internal bleeding and was unable to breathe

    That’s the nice way of saying she drowned in her own blood.

    “These young kids — 14, 15 years old — routinely carry firearms and this is what happens when you got young delinquents that carry guns,” Gualtieri said. “They get upset, they don’t know how to handle stuff, and they end up shooting each other.”

    Just FYI, this is not limited to children. There’s plenty of adults who have zero idea on how to handle stress without flashing a piece. I’ve seen about six different people use that as a method of indicating I’m getting over in your lane on my way into work pre-pandemic.

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      I’m pretty gullible and I believe a lot of stuff. So I’m asking this sincerely.

      Are you saying that in America people are tapping their widow with a Glock and giving you the stink eye to get into your lane? Like, instead of indicating and then waiting for a safe gap?

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        America is pretty big, and that isn’t something that happens where I live (Seattle)

        But there are parts of this country where a surprisingly large percentage of people are completely fucking insane and peacock with weapons in reckless ways. It also isn’t unusual for children to have guns, even if it isn’t legal.

        There’s a high school in rural Colorado that has given up on doing anything about guns in their high school because something like 30% of students are armed on any given day.

        I grew up in Tennessee, and students were allowed to store guns in their cars parked in the high school parking lot.

        I have met many people who open-carry and then openly emphasize it to others because they want to be intimidating. It’s a part of their identity, and they will let you know in inappropriate ways.

        This country is weird. I’m happy to live in a less violent part of it.

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            Found the Fox News watcher.

            Protip: The CHOP/CHAZ was a 3-week protest that closed a single neighborhood intersection, and ended over 3 years ago. The only people who think that it is an example of how dangerous Seattle is are people who watch right-wing news and have never set foot in Seattle…

            Fox News literally reported on it as if it were another country. They referred to it as if it as the “US/CHAZ border”, and overreported about it like it was the story of the century. Spoiler: they just hate progressive cities like Seattle, and were willing to say anything that would arouse their boomer viewership.

            It was basically an unauthorized block party created to stimulate an extended 2020 BLM protest.

            Yes, there was some violence, but at such a small scale it had zero effect on the city’s already low violent crime rate.

            But keep going about how racial justice protests make you feel unsafe…

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              Lol people died but naaaa it’s cool it was just a small problem.

              https://www.axios.com/local/seattle/2023/11/08/washington-crime-rate-up-statistics-chart

              It might have been a low crime city 30 years ago but it’s not anymore.

              Also hilariously funny how you instantly think I’m a right wing repub. Keep thinking that while you argue with someone who is pro-choice, wants single payer, wants the war on drugs to end and qualified immunity repealed and also marched with the protestors during the BLM movement…but sure…keep putting your head in the sand.

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                If you find it frustrating that people think you’re a right winger, consider not talking like one.

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                  Yes because right wingers want all the stuff I’ve just stated…have you wondered why the Republican party still exists? It’s not because the Dems are fantastic… it’s because they won’t leave the damn guns alone. You tear that one last thing from the repubs and it’s a dem win for decades.

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            The George Floyd protests were outliers and the bigger picture shows that Tennessee is one of the most violent states in the country: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_U.S._states_and_territories_by_violent_crime_rate.

            Even if you look at homicides per county, violence in TN is pretty widespread: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_U.S._states_and_territories_by_intentional_homicide_rate

            Granted, Washington state’s homicides look fairly evenly distributed there but the worst areas are outside of Seattle. Also, based on your description of TN I’d expect it to look like Illinois where most homicides occurs in specific areas of Chicago

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              Memphis and Nashville… that’s where the gangs are and where the majority of the violence is. This isn’t an unknown thing. Both counties that hold those cities are have a high murder rate. This goes for basically all large cities, it shouldn’t be a surprise.

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                Funny how Seattle is dangerous because of BLM, and Tennessee is dangerous because of Memphis (majority Black city), and “gangs”.

                I definitely see a pattern with what you consider dangerous…

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                  O nooo the white privileged white guy is pointing out that only black people are in gangs…the fuck is wrong with you? Can’t refute points…run to the defense of calling someone a racist. Get a grip child.

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            I literally lived in the CHOP. My apartment was where it was founded. Just stop, other than the police abusing people and paramedics allowing people to die, nothing at all happened.

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          I live in Texas and see people strapped pretty often, but they usually aren’t like waving it around or anything.

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          I wouldn’t be so sure. I saw someone pull a gun at a fast-food drivethrough because there was a disagreement about whether the dude ordered french fries. And you’re literally responding to an article about a kid killing his sister with a gun over presents. What makes it so unbelievable to you?

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            I’m not doubting guns have been used in road rage incidents before, I’m doubting he’s seen it 6 times since the pandemic.

            And I’m doubting the effectiveness over a blinker because tbh I’m not making eye contact with other drivers at 75mph, I’m a little busy, so I won’t even see the gun like I would “the flashing light called a turn signal.”

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                Fair, I assumed he meant since then, but it looks like he hasn’t seen anyone do that since the pandemic maybe? Are we just referring to all of recorded history before 2019 as “pre-pandemic” now?

                In any case I don’t believe this dude has seen it happen six times in his life or any of his past lives, flat out.

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              He wasn’t saying it was effective. And typically on freeways and interstates, the speed differential between cars, which are also all moving in the same direction, makes it much easier to make eye contact and see individuals in their cars.

              The lack of a large speed differential is also one of the reasons assisted driving systems are most effective on interstates, freeways, and highways.

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                He wasn’t saying it was effective.

                He indicated their success by neglecting to use the word “try.”

                And typically on freeways and interstates, the speed differential between cars, which are also all moving in the same direction, makes it much easier to make eye contact and see individuals in their cars.

                Keep your eyes on the road man, you’re going to get in an accident.

                The lack of a large speed differential is also one of the reasons assisted driving systems are most effective on interstates, freeways, and highways.

                Do they brake for armed motorists?

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        I think it is generally unlikely but am also sure that there are places where this is part of the culture.

        In Florida you’re allowed to use lethal force if you justifiably believe that your safety is threatened. When lockdown first started, there was a video of a dude having a meltdown at a Costco because he had to wear a mask. The person at the door was a woman of 65-70 and the man child pumped up his chest and yelled “I feel threatened” at her, which I learned in Florida for threatening to murder someone over an inconvenience.

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    15-year-old brother and sister’s children

    This sentence is a great argument for the Oxford comma.

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    Go into any of the relationship subreddits today and for the next few days and you will see countless Americans melting down into various degrees of rage and bitterness over Xmas presents.

    It’s like this very goddamn year.

    Can anyone explain this part of the culture to me?

    I’m not saying I hate all Americans or anything ridiculous like that, the cast majority of Americans I’ve met are good hearted people but when it comes to Xmas and in what I’m given understand is the modern vernacular: “y’all cray.”

    Don’t any of your families still watch the Charlie Brown Christmas? Because you really should.

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      Go toxic places to read toxic things. I’ve never heard of this. But also I can’t imagine going to a relationship board and expecting to come away with anything but misanthropy regardless of time of year.

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      Materialism is really big with a lot of people. My in-laws kids are spoiled rotten and only accept big brand name stuff because that’s all their parents give them for Christmas and Birthdays. Same people who can’t afford to pay their mortgage and are likely to lose the house in a few months.

      I like present-less holidays. Better to focus on just being with people I find. Also helps if there’s a lot of good, homemade food.

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        I like present-less holidays. Better to focus on just being with people I find.

        presence > presents

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        For me it’s all about consumables and experience. You like sauerkraut? I just made you a jar. You like classical music? Here are two tickets to the symphony. I just avoid stuff unless it’s like plates for someone who moved into their first apartment.

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        Americans live in a state of constant stress that is satiated by material possessions and trying to impress or be better than others. These kids were just trying to get their dose of imbalanced brain chemicals

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      There are 335 million people in the United States.

      One asshat shot someone.

      I’m not defending guns, shitty culture, or shitty people, but this is clearly a case where this kid has some sort of mental disorder. Literally hundreds of millions of families watched Charlie Brown and went the entire holiday without murdering each other

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            Each one of the 89 shootings was one too many.

            Any idea how many shootings were on Christmas day in Australia, Canada or Switzerland where a lot of people have guns too?

            By the way, if you look at shootings in Australia before and after semi-automatic rifles got banned in 1996 you know how to improve the situation in the US.

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              By the way, if you look at shootings in Australia before and after semi-automatic rifles got banned in 1996 you know how to improve the situation in the US.

              I’m not sure if you’re aware of this, but you can also shoot people with bolt actions, lever actions; and SA, DA, and S/DA revolvers.

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              Someone in Prague just killed 15 people with a bolt action firearm…

              We have an issue with our society, not our firearms.

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                  Our firearms have been around for a lot longer than we have had these recent mass shootings issue…

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                Where did you see that it was a bolt action rifle? I couldn’t find any real details on the weapons used. I’m looking for sensible gun policies to advocate for in the US and a mass shooting with a bolt action refutes my “limit the rate of fire” idea.

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                  There is a video out there, and it shows him cycling the action. It was basically a dressed up hunting rifle he used.

                  If you’re actually wanting to solve our violence problem, you go to the root of our societies issues, not the tool used. All of these things below would curb our violence as a whole 1000xs more than any new gun control can.

                  We can start with:

                  • Single payer healthcare

                  • Ending the War on Drugs

                  • Ending Qualified immunity

                  • Properly funding our schools and not just rich white suburb schools.

                  • Build more schools and hire more teachers for proper pay so the class room sizes aren’t 30-40 kids for one teacher.

                  • UBI (at least start talking about it) once AI takes over most of the blue collar jobs.

                  • End for profit prisons

                  • Enforce the laws already on the books

                  • Make sure there are safety nets for poor families so the kids don’t turn to violence/gangs to survive.

                  • Increase the minimum wage

                  • Recreate our mental healthcare so kids don’t turn to the internet for support. And to help veterans not end up as a suicide number.

                  • Actively make a law to solidify Pro-choice rights. More unwanted children do not help our situation.

                  • Banning Insider Trading for Congress

                  • Term limits

                  • Ranked Choice Voting so we can move away from a 2 party system

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                Does it not seem reasonable to take away guns while we solve our society issues ?

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          See, if it were 90 I could understand you being upset…, but it’s just 89! are we really going to make a scene about 89 totally avoidable deaths ?? when we could just enjoy Christmas with the children we might lose tomorrow ?

          (thanks for the source)

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        No it is not clearly a case where the kid has some sort of mental disorder. You know literally nothing about this person.

        I would probably bet that this kid made a stupid split second choice in the heat of the moment about something that (partially likely due to raging teenage hormones) probably seemed very important at the time, and the guilt will haunt him until the end of his life (which, statistically speaking, just got much shorter on average).

        This is exactly why guns are so dangerous. It gives people (in this case, a literal child without a fully developed brain) the capability to make a decision to end another life in a split second.

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          You really think any sane rational FOURTEEN year old would just shoot their sister solely because of a Christmas gift?

          I’m not saying 14 year olds have adult mental capacity and decision making … but by that age you KNOW what a gun goes and you KNOW you can’t take it back.

          Either there’s more to the story or this kid definitely has some kind of mental disorder or mental distress that they needed to see a therapist about.

          Maybe the more to the story is that he thought he could just scare her by pointing the gun at her or her thought it was empty … and it wasn’t/the gun went off. If that’s the case, then the parents really screwed up having a gun in the house, not teaching the kid anything about gun safety, and allowing the kid across to the gun (granted again by 14 you’re pretty smart … the average 14 year old could probably figure out the code or were the keys are kept on a gun safe because I know most people do not follow best practices with any passwords or keys).

          And before you make any assumptions like you did with the other person, I’ve voted for Democrats in every election, donated some significant money to their campaigns, and I do not own a gun and do not have any restrictions that prevent me from owning a gun, I’ve just decided that for me … particularly with living alone and a (granted not recent) history of depression that included suicidal thoughts … they’re not a good thing to have around. I avoid alcohol for similar reasons.

          Thoughts and prayers might be a meaningless response but a huge block of the population has said “we’re not giving up our guns” … come to think of it … just like a huge block of the population has said “we’re not giving up our alcohol” (as is their right at the polls).

          There is a majority that would like to see some common sense gun reform and we should do that. However, I believe the right has a point about mental health and guns. What they don’t have is the willingness to fund mental health systems and instead they blame all the mental health issues on a degraded culture (🙄). We need to bring mental health back into the conversation with information from professionals. They also have a point about teaching kids about gun safety, if we’re going to keep guns, then it’s a public disservice to not teach kids (or at least the kids of gun owners) “this is what a gun is, don’t point it at anything you don’t want to kill” and “there’s a difference between pretend and reality, these are never for pretend” as a baseline.

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            Yes. Countless stories of children murdering their parents over this stuff. It’s very common. Remember that the country is big with lots of people so you’re going to see these things from time to time-it’s statistically likely to happen.

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              What are you arguing here? That it happens and it’s not mental illness because there are so many people that it’s bound to happen?

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                No. That with that many people, there are enough whackos that this sort of thing will constantly be in the news even though when compared to the population size the events are still extraordinarily rare.

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          Murdering another human is a sign of mental disorder. Especially if it’s in a case like this. I don’t think it’s possible to argue “this human is acting rationally, losing control of yourself to the point where you literally murder someone is, indeed, a sign of mental stability.”

          Also, access to guns isn’t the reason people murder each other.

          In Christmas Day a 36 year old stabbed 2 children, 2 girls aged 14 and 16, for no other reason than seemingly, they weren’t white. A fucking racist asshole decided to attempt to murder kids. Is this person not suffering from a mental disorder? Should we stop people from owning knives too?

          Again, I have never said this was about gun ownership. People who think violent crime stops if guns are gone are delusional. It’s such a rhetorical trap. I bet conservative leadership in the United States love when liberals make this an issue, it’s one of huge issues that motivates their base.

          This is now, and always will be, a public health issue. You want less people to be victims of violent crime? Give us universal healthcare that also covers mental illness. Make it free, make education high quality, and free too. Crime will go down, violence will go down.

          The political discourse about guns disguises that entire debate. And it’s stupid that people fall for it.

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            The political discourse about guns disguises that entire debate. And it’s stupid that people fall for it.

            Only stupid people say dumb shit like “guns aren’t the problem, the ONLY problem is mental health”. People can expect reform in two separate yet connected topics. One can absolutely impact the other.

            Yeah, a crazy fucker stabbed a couple girls. He had a knife. I WISH that the crazy fucker who shot up entire classrooms at Uvalde or Sandy Hook had only had a knife.

            Provide better mental health AND tighter gun control policies.

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              I have never said anything about gun control, for it or against it.

              This is a mental health issue. Happy, well adjusted people don’t murder other people.

              It’s interesting you mention Sandy Hook. Did you know on the same day in China a mentally ill person ran through a Chinese school and stabbed 22 kids in the fucking head?

              Stabbings in Chinese schools are a huge issue. The person killed 8 of the kids by stabbing them in the head.

              But sure, keep focusing on guns. Let’s put all of our effort into that. That’s clearly more important than free, publicly funded mental healthcare.

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                I have never said anything about gun control, for it or against it.

                You’re apparently saying that we shouldn’t be focusing on guns because mental health is more important…

                But sure, keep focusing on guns. Let’s put all of our effort into that. That’s clearly more important than free, publicly funded mental healthcare.

                We can surely do both at the same time, don’t you think?

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                  I really don’t.

                  The whole topic, in the current political environment, is so polarizing and so toxic, I think it torpedoes any progress that could be made in reducing gun violence.

                  I believe gun violence will go down if people have better mental healthcare, better access to housing, and better job prospects. My personal belief is people who commit violence against others are doing so because of mental disease. If you reduce their stress, make their future prospects better, and tell them they have a future, their prospects, and mental health, will improve.

                  America is more polarized now than it ever has been. A conservative and a liberal will never agree on gun control. They just won’t. But I do think a liberal and a conservative can agree that violence is a problem, and that conservatives would be willing to consider solutions to it that aren’t simply making firearms illegal.

                  It obviously wouldn’t reduce gun violence to 0 like a ban would, but focusing on it as a mental health issue, and addressing that, would reduce other forms of violent crime too. Less muggings, stabbing, rapes, etc. I believe, taken as a whole, there would be less crime and drastically less violent crime, doing that, than any kind of firearm ban could achieve.

                  Edit: the downvotes prove my point. American politics right now care more about winning whatever hot button issue someone has, rather than cooperating to make meaningful change.

                  How about everyone reading this does a mental exercise. Let’s say liberals decided not to care about gun control, and that issue wasn’t relevant in American politics for the last 20 years. Do you think the current supreme court would look the way it does? Do you think organizations like the NRA would have anywhere near the funding and power they have now? How many single issue conservative voters did simply not show up to vote if there was 0 chance a liberal majority would “take their guns”

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            How convenient for you: a kid shoots and kills another kid, and just by default, you can make all sorts of assumptions about their mental health, and use it as a scapegoat, before the topic of firearms can even be brought up.

            Please save us all the time and energy and don’t pretend like you actually give a single shit about funding mental health care. A thing conservatives have also gone out of their way to de-fund.

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              Interesting you’d label a guy advocating for universal healthcare and increased education spending a conservative.

              You’re not even listening to my arguments.

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        If it was the only shooting that day, it would have been a peaceful one for a change. Hint: It wasn’t.

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          Like I said, I’m not defending guns.

          What I hate is people who attack where I live, with sweeping generalizations about how shitty a place it is. It isn’t. The United States is entirely neutral. There are good things about it and bad things about it. Every country has their issues, and reducing violent crimes to such a simplistic focus as “lol, guns bad, USA sucks” is catastrophically stupid.

          One of the main ways I judge people is if they punch down. A good example of this is Trump’s feud with Greta Thunberg. At the time he was president of the United States. And she was a 16 year old autistic girl. Think about that. For a time the president of the United States, a person with literal tens of thousands of nuclear weapons at their disposal, decided that a 16 year old, foreign, autistic girl needed the focus of his ire. That’s punching down. And it’s classless.

          So if you think the United States is shit, that’s fine. But if you live in a place that you think is so much better than it, you can say that in a way that’s constructive. There’s no need to attack somebody or some thing you think you’re better than

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            The United States is entirely neutral.

            No. Definitely not. When it comes to violent crimes, with guns or otherwise, the US is anything but “neutral”. It is a sore point sticking out of all western countries.

            There’s no need to attack somebody or some thing you think you’re better than

            Well, it is a fact that shootings are an everyday occurrence in the US. Heck, even mass shootings (plural!) are a normal, everyday occurrence in the US, to the point that mass shootings with less than ten dead people rarely make the news anymore in the US. I’m not attacking you, I’m just stating the facts. But yes, I think any place in the world where things like that are not normal, everyday events is inherently a better place. Try to change my mind on that.

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      Entirely too many people base their self worth on what other people think of them.

      So “I didn’t get enough shinies” = “nobody really loves me” = “I’m a worthless human being”.

      Alternately “I didn’t get enough shinies for my kids” = “I’m a bad parent” = “I’m a worthless human being.”

      Then that gets reflected outwards, poorly. :(

      Breaking that cycle of seeking approval from other people is one of the hardest things you can do. At our core, we all seek validation on some level or other.

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        It’s mostly people running a mental ledger then comparing the value of presents to how much they do in the relationship as a journal for the shortfall in gift value.

        Often siblings resenting one another for perceived (or even sometimes objectively clear) favouritism.

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      There was - it made things worse:

      The 15-year-old brother came outside with his own semiautomatic handgun and allegedly shot the younger teen in the stomach

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    Three years ago I had to stop my 17 year-old adopted sister from hitting our elderly mother over $30 of missing Amazon crap on Christmas day, then I called the sheriff on she and her baby daddy. Five cars came to mediate the situation.

    Needless to say, I don’t go to family Christmases anymore.

    Families suck.

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      Sorry to hear that. That’s awful. If you have your own family in the future, that’s your chance to make sure nothing like that happens in it. We learn from the mistakes we experience.

      I honestly feel like we get better with each generation from experiences like this.

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        I’ve read too many history books to think that things get better with our species over time, and my time is too valuable to me to waste on kids, but that’s just me.

        I hope the choices you’ve made are fulfilling for you.

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          Oh I’m certain our generation is kinder to our kids than those that came before us. History shows us a lot of cruelty to each other over the years but it also shows us a huge improvement over time, particularly in the last 60 odd years.

          But thanks I appreciate where you’re coming from and for sure I’m a better dad than my dad was and for sure he was a better dad than his dad was.

          Hopefully we’re getting there. :)

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      I hope you have the opportunity to build a family (via biology or social bond) that better lives up.

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        I learned to be happy on my own, which is the best thing ever if you ask me.

        I don’t need other people to live a fulfilling life, and I hope I never feel like I need anyone but myself.

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      Lol, what? I’d beat the shit out of her if she tried to lay a hand on me mom.

      She’d learn real fucking quick about what it really means to beat on someone weaker than you.

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        It’s a nice thought but I’m pretty sure my beating the shit out of a 17 year-old girl wouldn’t have reflected well on me in front of five sheriff’s deputies.

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    Strict liability for whoever was the legal owner of the gun(s), I say.

    Whoever let these children get their hands on the firearm is absolutely a murderer. Even if it someone who let their gun get stolen from their car. Definitely if it was a family member or friend.

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      Oh, I remember that event with an actor killing a camera operator with a prop gun (jokingly pointing it at her) or something.

      The person responsible for props was a complete dumb baboon and guilty of murder, yes.

      However, I was shocked by the fact that so many people think that pointing a real gun, even if it’s a prop, at somebody without checking that it’s not loaded is normal and thus that actor was innocent. They were defending that action as if they themselves would really have taken a gun and squeezed the trigger while pointing at someone without checking.

      So maybe it’s about responsibility and education, not ownership of guns.

      Because, say, Moldova (off the top of my mind), hardly a rich country or even with a healthy society, has gun laws more liberal than in USA, and doesn’t have school shootings and such events.

      Switzerland and Austria have very liberal gun laws, again possibly more so than in USA, and don’t have such a problem.

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        Can’t speak for Moldova or Austria, but I would not call Switzerland’s gun laws liberal.

        They are VERY strict. Gun ownership rates are high, but there are tons of restrictions and licensing requirements on ownership and sale of guns there. The country is proof that having a strong regulatory structure does not necessarily prevent gun ownership and should absolutely be considered a model for where the US regulator environment should be moving (universal registration including 2nd hand sales, full license checks for all purchases including ammo, effective bans on large categories of weapons, mandatory training, and the like).

        People who love “gun rights” always cite Switzerland without even doing the most basic Wikipedia-level research on it.

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          People who love “gun rights” always cite Switzerland without even doing the most basic Wikipedia-level research on it.

          People winning arguments in their heads shouldn’t come to real ones.

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        and Austria have very liberal gun laws, again possibly more so than in USA,

        Austria has relatively relaxed gun laws for Europe. but it’s still fairly strict compared to the USA.

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          Oh, OK, OK. I’ve literally had something in my memory and did only quick reading on laws in those 2 countries before writing that comment, and evaluated strictness on my own.

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        Correct me if I’m wrong, but aren’t those places where you’re required to take some kind of classes to be able to qualify to own a gun? Isn’t it also pretty easy for anyone from the police to be able to take them from you within reason if they find you to be violating some laws?

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          Yeah. If “taking some kind of classes” is not obligatory in the US, then we have the main reason for all the accidental shootings and kids takings their parents’ guns right here.

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            Depends on the state if it’s required. Not required in Kansas, but required in Minnesota as an example

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          on the actor who never chose to own a gun, so they have no reason to educate themselves about gun safety.

          He chose to take it, point it at a person and squeeze the trigger, so yes he had that reason and yes I can.

          Jokingly, I should add, he wasn’t instructed by anyone to take that gun and wave it around.

          The only people not having a reason to educate themselves about gun safety are people who don’t touch guns.

          All responsibility lies with their employer (I guess that’s the producer and/or director), who made them handle a gun as part of their job and should have given them the required training,

          Yeah, they probably managed to make only the prop guy responsible too, just like that actor. But I don’t remember the details.

          as well as the prop guy whose job it was to check the gun.

          … and about that person I’ve already said what I wanted.

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    And Florida’s answer to this, along with so much of the country, is more guns. Absolute insanity

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    Unclear why second brother being charged with attempted murder but it is presumably because there was a delay between the two shootings.