You just made a lot of assumptions not supported by the science.
All this shows is physical attraction. When shown pictures of random women to then rate the physical attractiveness of.
That’s it. Nothing about who these men actually wanted to date. Someone can be very physically attractive to you and you can simultaneously not want to date them.
I (a man who doesn’t date me) personally feel like past five or so years in either direction it tends to rapidly fall off. Look weird and hard to relate to.
I’ve notived that Yanks are really into this, a meme circulating was that anyone with their age starting with 2 has no business dating anyone with their age starting with 1. Lmao
Attractive or actually want to date? I’m guessing porn stars are all around that age, but I have trouble believing the average 40 year old guy wants to date a 20 year old. Or maybe they only quizzed the older guys who like to hang out in bars?
I’m over 40 and imagine even 10 years younger would be hard to deal with.
I’m 48 and my wife is 10 years younger. We have been together for 10 years. We are happy together and have enough in common to really enjoy each other’s company. We also have enough not in common to be able to give each other space. Milage varies for everyone, for sure, but at least in our case the age difference has meant nothing.
This is ageism. As an also over 40 if you’re not making friends and considering romantic partners outside of Gen X you are denying the world and steadily losing touch with society. Enjoy senility if you keep on this bigoted path!
That chart isn’t of “how low” the men in the study would go, it the age of the women ranked most attractive by the men in the study. Still isn’t great, agreed, but it is talking purely about physical attractiveness.
Here is the chart from the same study about what age ranges the men in the study said they would find acceptable to date. By 28 years old, 20 is no longer within the field.
I dated a girl much younger than me and it was ass. Literally couldn’t talk about anything interesting (to me). Dated a way older girl and it was so chill, also best sex I’ve had. Though if I were to choose (let’s be honest, I don’t get much choice) I would pick 1 or 2 years younger than me at most
I’ve had sex with women half my age, or less, but for a partner I’ve always loved women my own age, give or take a few years.
Of course it’s all on a sliding scale. 50 dating 40, meh, close enough. 18 dating 12, aw hell no.
And then you have Filipinas. Lord. Went to my wife’s friend’s birthday party last summer. She was turning 30. He was about to turn 70. :) We’re the only white/Asian couple of the same age, and my wife is really insecure about it.
Same! When I was 27 I saw a girl that was 22. After seeing her for two days I just couldn’t take it anymore. She was way too immature for me. It felt like I was dating a kid…
To be fair I was also very immature at the age of 22. But I really don’t get men who date much younger women.
Think that’s because we don’t really get much of a choice, as the women tend to marry early, and not fuck around too much, leaving us only with the women who…aren’t into anything, or are much younger.
Yeah, but as you get older people a certain number of years younger than you start looking like legit children. And personally, I feel like a wider range of life experiences (on average) matter more to women than to men.
But also, this chart is flawed in that we don’t know how many people per age/per gender were asked, how they calculated variation, what the error rate is, or even what the source of the data is. It’s literally just a Microsoft Office chart.
I’m not saying I want a relationship with a twenty year old or that women older than that are categorically unattractive, but as far as looks alone go, when I started puberty at 11, I thought women around 20 were the best-looking. When I was 20, I thought women around 20 were the best looking. And now that I’m 40, I still think women around 20 are the best-looking. Maybe I’ll change my mind as I keep getting older but I doubt it. Having to accept this is simply part of having to accept the more general pattern of physical decline produced by aging - I don’t look bad and women my age don’t look bad, but both they and I don’t look as good as we used to.
That’s interesting. I think women are most attractive in their late 20s to early 30s. Younger, to me, they still have child-like features. Older, the effects of aging start to take place. As for men, 30s and 40s is where it is.
They get more plump around 26, at 20, they have baby face, and are almost bones. At 26, they have a middle build. After that, they get depressed or something, and tend to be less fun. Just my opinion imho. Even if she is attractive, her personality just ruins it.
ah yes, toning! The very thing that leads to early wrinkling and higher cancer risks, while getting debatably good results! Why haven’t i thought of it?
Attractive doesn’t mean I want to fuck them. One time my niece pulled up and all her hot 18-20 friends piled out the car. Nice! After 15-minutes of listening to them talk I was internally screaming.
ngl men dating people their age would be a nice change
cause the situation now is really hammering home that if men could go lower, they would. 20 was the minimum age in that study.
You just made a lot of assumptions not supported by the science.
All this shows is physical attraction. When shown pictures of random women to then rate the physical attractiveness of.
That’s it. Nothing about who these men actually wanted to date. Someone can be very physically attractive to you and you can simultaneously not want to date them.
Yep, talk to a 10/10, then opens her mouth saying she wants to vote for Trump and completely flaccid. I suspect the reverse also happens.
If I see “College” or “18” in a certain place, I swipe, I don’t even look.
Not saying which way is pretty dumb, bravo
I’m not talking about Tinder, I’m talking about Lemmy NSFW, so I just keep scrolling down.
Oof.
I (a man who doesn’t date me) personally feel like past five or so years in either direction it tends to rapidly fall off. Look weird and hard to relate to.
I’ve notived that Yanks are really into this, a meme circulating was that anyone with their age starting with 2 has no business dating anyone with their age starting with 1. Lmao
So you’re saying a 200 year old can’t date a 100 year old?
Half your age +7 ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
So a 200 year old person can’t date a 100 year old person. But it would be fine if a 200 year old person dated a 107 year old person.
Honestly I’m more side eyeing the 47 year old dating an 80 year old.
Attractive or actually want to date? I’m guessing porn stars are all around that age, but I have trouble believing the average 40 year old guy wants to date a 20 year old. Or maybe they only quizzed the older guys who like to hang out in bars?
I’m over 40 and imagine even 10 years younger would be hard to deal with.
I’m 48 and my wife is 10 years younger. We have been together for 10 years. We are happy together and have enough in common to really enjoy each other’s company. We also have enough not in common to be able to give each other space. Milage varies for everyone, for sure, but at least in our case the age difference has meant nothing.
Wait, you would not date me? Really? What do they got, that I don’t?!?
(I don’t actually want to date a guy, just jealous)
This is ageism. As an also over 40 if you’re not making friends and considering romantic partners outside of Gen X you are denying the world and steadily losing touch with society. Enjoy senility if you keep on this bigoted path!
That chart isn’t of “how low” the men in the study would go, it the age of the women ranked most attractive by the men in the study. Still isn’t great, agreed, but it is talking purely about physical attractiveness.
Here is the chart from the same study about what age ranges the men in the study said they would find acceptable to date. By 28 years old, 20 is no longer within the field.
I dated a girl much younger than me and it was ass. Literally couldn’t talk about anything interesting (to me). Dated a way older girl and it was so chill, also best sex I’ve had. Though if I were to choose (let’s be honest, I don’t get much choice) I would pick 1 or 2 years younger than me at most
I’ve had sex with women half my age, or less, but for a partner I’ve always loved women my own age, give or take a few years.
Of course it’s all on a sliding scale. 50 dating 40, meh, close enough. 18 dating 12, aw hell no.
And then you have Filipinas. Lord. Went to my wife’s friend’s birthday party last summer. She was turning 30. He was about to turn 70. :) We’re the only white/Asian couple of the same age, and my wife is really insecure about it.
classmate was 15 his dad was 71 lol
So you’re turning 70 and the wife is turning 30? Or was that just broadly worded?
wife’s friend
That was the line that is confusing.
Same! When I was 27 I saw a girl that was 22. After seeing her for two days I just couldn’t take it anymore. She was way too immature for me. It felt like I was dating a kid…
To be fair I was also very immature at the age of 22. But I really don’t get men who date much younger women.
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Think that’s because we don’t really get much of a choice, as the women tend to marry early, and not fuck around too much, leaving us only with the women who…aren’t into anything, or are much younger.
men and women can date whomever they want at any age of an adult. its actually sexist to men says they cant.
Eww, I really don’t want someone fresh out of high school. What are they going to do with some school girl?
Have sex with them, you dork
Men age like fine wine
No, most of us eventually turn into vinaigrette. Just toss me into some twenty year old girl’s salad when it’s my time.
tell that to my hairline :(
Love the 45 year old men briefly actually developing mental maturity before the midlife crisis kills their brain again
Neither men nor women get better looking with age, so I’m not sure what the women are thinking.
Yeah, but as you get older people a certain number of years younger than you start looking like legit children. And personally, I feel like a wider range of life experiences (on average) matter more to women than to men.
But also, this chart is flawed in that we don’t know how many people per age/per gender were asked, how they calculated variation, what the error rate is, or even what the source of the data is. It’s literally just a Microsoft Office chart.
I’m not saying I want a relationship with a twenty year old or that women older than that are categorically unattractive, but as far as looks alone go, when I started puberty at 11, I thought women around 20 were the best-looking. When I was 20, I thought women around 20 were the best looking. And now that I’m 40, I still think women around 20 are the best-looking. Maybe I’ll change my mind as I keep getting older but I doubt it. Having to accept this is simply part of having to accept the more general pattern of physical decline produced by aging - I don’t look bad and women my age don’t look bad, but both they and I don’t look as good as we used to.
That’s interesting. I think women are most attractive in their late 20s to early 30s. Younger, to me, they still have child-like features. Older, the effects of aging start to take place. As for men, 30s and 40s is where it is.
They get more plump around 26, at 20, they have baby face, and are almost bones. At 26, they have a middle build. After that, they get depressed or something, and tend to be less fun. Just my opinion imho. Even if she is attractive, her personality just ruins it.
Speak for yourself. My acne is finally gone, I look super sophisticated, and they never really wanted my bulging muscles anyways.
congrats!
Good luck getting better appearance with age after you step over the 25yo threshold tho
After fully maturing we can only age, sadly
I improved drasticaly, thanks to work torture, I’m toned as fuck.
ah yes, toning! The very thing that leads to early wrinkling and higher cancer risks, while getting debatably good results! Why haven’t i thought of it?
You mean I will die early? Nice!
lol I’m decades older than that. The chart isn’t lying!
DiCaprio is that you?
Yeah I could have phrased that better. I’m apparently unusual and that’s good news for me!
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Attractive doesn’t mean I want to fuck them. One time my niece pulled up and all her hot 18-20 friends piled out the car. Nice! After 15-minutes of listening to them talk I was internally screaming.
Next time yell skibidy 67
That one is probably outdated by now. Gotta bring the Tung Tung Tung Sahur or other AI slop.
Isn’t that what attractive means though?
Someone can be good-looking, but unattractive due to their personality.
They were attractive until they started talking.
GenX dude who peaked around my late 40s, early 50s. At 54, on the downside now. :(
As to women, loads of the pretty/popular girls went downhill fast after high school and so many of the nerdy girls bloomed.