• LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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    20 days ago

    Yep! Not to mention how many decent men think they have a right to tell their partner to have long hair, get a Brazilian, wear high heels etc. I’ve met so many who think as it’s just a couple of things so they can expect it cos THEY like it that way

    • ZDL@lazysoci.al
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      19 days ago

      I actually had someone tell me I should get a Brazilian. We weren’t together long after that, but we split up after I told him I’d get one the day after he got one.

    • dandelion@piefed.blahaj.zoneM
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      19 days ago

      that’s a good point, part of the assumption that it’s all for them is that their preferences are all that matter 🤦‍♀️

    • NιƙƙιDιɱҽʂ@lemmy.world
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      16 days ago

      Agreed. People dictating how their partners should express themselves are so gross.

      My boyfriend keeps asking if he can shave his head. I’m like, dude, I love your hair and think it’s beautiful, but if that’s what you want to do, I’m here for it. It’s his hair after all, haha.