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Yuritopiaposadism [none/use name]@hexbear.net to Chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 years ago

"So the decision to avoid having children may amount to a kind of performance anxiety in the face of intense expectations and weak governmental and social support".

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"So the decision to avoid having children may amount to a kind of performance anxiety in the face of intense expectations and weak governmental and social support".

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Yuritopiaposadism [none/use name]@hexbear.net to Chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 years ago
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https://twitter.com/juutsid/status/1720518455458214044

tl;dr: millennials are afraid of failure.

  • zifnab25 [he/him, any]@hexbear.netBanned
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    I wouldn’t even put it on poverty, because large population booms have happened under impoverished conditions elsewhere without issue.

    But there’s a huge social taboo against pregnancy at virtually any age. Children are treated like luxuries. They’re enormously expensive to have and to raise, and everything about childhood is commodified to shit. Add to that how people are all terrified of one another. Men are told to put their prospective spouses on a pedestal, so they’ve all got to be supermodels with PhDs and rich parents. Women are inundated with the grossest men imaginable in dating markets that reward you for being an annoying creep. Everyone is told to hate one another constantly by a media apparatus that profits off your alienation.

    We also seem to absolutely hate kids, in this modern moment. They’re constantly presented as violent, parasitic, gross, vulgar monsters.

    So much of this is just mass media bombarding us with bad advice and bigoted worldviews. How is anyone supposed to procreate under these conditions?

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      I wonder what the correlation is to those previous booms vs now when medical bills for child delivery(like all medical bills) are higher than ever? I’ve done no research but I’m pretty sure it’s more expensive than ever just creating a kid. (USA based observation)

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        If you want ANY hopium for the US.

        Gavin Newsom in California has been making attempts to get the ball rolling on a statewide universal healthcare system, which is almost identical to how Canada got universal healthcare. Tommy Douglass got it in Saskatchewan and it started to catch on for the rest of the state.

        Whole Washington is doing some good work.

        Oregon too

        The path to victory is in the west coast, lads.

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      order-of-lenin great post

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