this song rules, thanks for reminding me to listen to it again

no one’s saying it’s acceptable, we’re just saying that it’s not the same as misogynistic harassment. body-shaming is still bad and we are against it. read AcidSmiley’s comment.

i’m going to just repost what i said on the last thread debunking misandry lol.

The men on this site were never okay, tbh. We’ve been complaining about the misogyny problem on the trans mega for months, and I’m sure it was a problem before I came here too.

I remember when this topic was brought up a few months ago and some “enlightened centrist” men kept trying to debatebro the position that misandry technically exists because some women do not like men (because of their experiences with misogyny), forgetting that misogyny is waaaaaaay more than that lmao. Imagine if misogyny was just “sometimes a man does not like me” instead of a whole system of continual oppression and abuse.

hell yeah, iconic album

I hope you’re safe, comrade.

Death to Israel.

had quite a few arguments with white fascists.

Played just a bit of Celeste today on my friend’s computer. Other than that this past week I haven’t really played anything.

I have a pretty good mind’s ear too, not perfect though. I also have perfect* pitch and also audio-visual synesthesia, I see music as colors in my head. One of my favorite things to do is play covers of song on piano by ear. I’m also autistic. Music is just so cool.

(* there are different levels of absolute/perfect pitch and mine isn’t the best, I’m not really able to identify complex jazz chords or individual notes in large stacks of notes for example, but other people with perfect pitch can)

Douyin makeup getting rebranded as K-beauty…

Rain World… post-apocalyptic world trying not to get eaten by lizards…

Oh yeah, I’m of the opinion that the whole system of therapy is fucked and that good therapists are fairly hard to find in a system which seeks to uphold the hegemony of a conception of “wellness” under the doom-spiral of capitalism. My last therapist was an older white person who had absolutely no advice for me dealing with a horrific anxiety disorder, severe OCD, ADHD, autism, and constant retraumatization from covid, capitalism, and the difficult family situation I was living in. She actually victim-blamed me once in the aftermath of a moment of physical violence and then when I confronted her about it later, she denied it and tried to gaslight me. She also kept harping on about me wearing a mask and taking covid precautions. I also had no idea of how to even breach the subject of being a Chinese trans person with her. It was such a bad experience that it put me off trying to find a therapist again for months, and now I’m trying again but with OCD-specific therapy this time.

I’m sorry.

Wuhan family let’s go, my mom was there just a few weeks ago.

Haven’t been to Yunnan myself, but my parents have. They seemed to like it. According to them, the climate was quite temperate compared to the rest of China (which can get boilingly hot in the summer) thanks to the mountains.

Because “America” is a settler colonial entity violently occupying many Indigenous nations and the Black nation in diaspora.

The wall is too kind for these murderers.

Played Rain World with my friend the other day. Was really fun.