Back on my bullshit, quitting, again. This time I called my 1-800 quit line and ordered the patch to help. But it’s so ass backwards their shipping is 7-14 days usps. So with that logic by the time I get the patch the cravings will have stopped since they normally subside by day 4 or 5, fucking stupid.

I’m in a bad mood and want a smoke.

*edit: wow I’m really in a bad fucking mood, like I want to fight someone. Being sober fucking sucks.

  • Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    23 hours ago

    I don’t know if this will help but the knowledge that allowed me to quit was that the chemical addiction to nicotine goes away after 3 days, everything after that is habit.

    This allowed me to realign my thinking about it. All I had to do was effectively sleep for 3 days to beat the chemical side and then remind myself that I don’t need one and it’s in my head afterwards. It gave me a lot of power I did not have before.

  • when I quit (4.5 years ago) I got into crafting. something to do with my hands and head. sculpy, crappy paints, canvas, sand paper and little wood, boxes, stain.

    so when I felt the pull for a smoke break, I would instead fiddle with something and maybe do a little work on it.

    it was clutch to have like a desk area just for works in progress and their materials, because it makes starting and stopping easy.

    I heard 3 weeks for full physical independence from addiction. everything after is about new habits.

    one of the random things that helped me was washing all of my clothes and jackets, etc, so they smell nice. when the sense of smell returns, it’s crazy how potent cig smoke is.

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      this is a great idea ngl. I don’t smoke but sometimes compulsively pull out sewing or electronics projects when I’m extremely stressed

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    Keep it up, proud of you! I quit cold turkey in 2015 and I’ve only had one cig since (while drunk in 2017). You can do it! Also think of all the money you’ll save lmao cigs are so expensive now

    I still love the smell of secondhand smoke and think about smoking a few times a week though

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    I’m sorry, Comrade. I honestly hope you can find the peace you need. It sucks they make it so difficult but I’m happy you are trying to quit. One day at a time.

    In a show of solidarity, I will let you fight me and punch my face as much as you want.

    My face:

    1000013438

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    19 hours ago

    bro i believe in you!! you got this penguin-love

    meta

    pretty sure Yugopnik (from The Deprogram) a couple months ago was quitting smoking with nicotine patches

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    Have you tried vaping? Weirdly it helped me quit even though I only switched so I could “smoke” indoors lol. It was a good substitute at first, but over time I got tired of certain things about it (taste wasn’t as good, it lacks the “rituals” of smoking, getting to “smoke” indoors meant I did it more and got nicotine poisoning headaches somewhat regularly) and when I ended up quitting vaping, I didn’t feel a need to go back to cigarettes.

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        I was gonna say the same. Some can use vaping to quit but i just switched to smoking my vape all day. while vaping kicks the shit out of smoking in terms of stinkiness i have no faith in the safety of these vapes. My lungs feel worse than with og baccy.

        Have you ever quit before? My longest stint was for 7 years before relapse

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            First couple of months are the shittiest. Won’t lie, probably 2-3 before i wasnt getting that empty feeling in my throat, that craving for the burn. But if you get past that part it really does get easier i swear. Not easy but i swear not as bad as what you’re going thru rn.

            Youve got one down mate, you can do it. Ill cheer for your success

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        I vape now and it’s bad I hit it all day like a fiend.

        it me lmao

        i have a refillable rig currently on 1.5% nicotine strength and i still hit this shit like a crackhead all day. i need to quit too.

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        idk what it’s like where you are but here you have to buy little shots of nicotine and then nicotine-free juice (where the flavour is), then mix them yourself. the way i quit was i slowly reduced the amount of nicotine i put into the juice over time, so i got the sensation of vaping but i was lowering the nicotine levels

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      nicotine poisoning headaches

      O

      That’s what those were… Mainly got a little barfy feeling though. It’s been like a week without a vape and I feel pretty normal again. NGL I know the nic high will hit super good after having taken a day or two unintentional TB before. Might just restrict my nic to hookah or blunt wraps. But also might still try to be completely sober, but the weed seems to even me out. So IDK.

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    I quit by being in a place I wasn’t allowed to smoke for 9 months. Obviously that’s not something everyone can do. But isolating yourself somewhere you can’t acquire any nicotine products will force you into going past withdrawal. I’ve heard of people going camping during a 3-day weekend and just not bringing any product with them. Even better if someone can drop you off and pick you up so you don’t get tempted to buy anything in a nearby town.

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    Ugh there’s nothing worse than being in that ‘sweet spot’ where you regain your taste and cigs start to be tasty again, you just gotta fight through it until they get gross again.

    I have dreams sometimes of buying a pack of Lucky Strikes but they’re the old ones before the RJ Reynolds buyout that tasted like rust and dirt.