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  • That comes with its own risks because Windows has been known to destroy dual boot setups when doing updates. Not always, but it can happen and it’s burnt people.

    Dual booting also makes it harder when you decide to get rid of windows fully, because you might yourself accidentally screw your bootloader as part of removing windows.

    The option I would personally recommend if you are unsure is to disconnect your windows hard drive, keep it safe, and install Linux on a separate drive. Then you can always drive swap back if you need and you know everything is safe.

    You can even put the windows drive back in after installing Linux, and then just use your BIOS boot drive selector to switch where you are booting from. Each drive has it’s own boot record in that case, so there’s less risk of any accidents.


  • You could argue the other way around - growing up with decent and non-predatory practices makes you less tolerant of when companies try to extort you because you already know what “good” looks like.

    I’m sure the corpos would love nothing more than kids getting exposed to predatory practices from a young age so they grow up feeling those things are acceptable and normal.


  • tiramichu@sh.itjust.worksto196@lemmy.worldlanguage rule
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    12:15 in the afternoon is uncontroversially 12:15 PM. I don’t think anyone could disagree with that. So are 12:10 PM, and 12:01 PM.

    By extension, noon can only be 12PM, not AM, because the the moment we go from 11:59 to 12:00 is the very instant the afternoon starts.

    (I use 24h clock myself but that’s another argument)





  • “Wanking” and “Gooning” have vastly different meanings, in their context and nuance.

    Gooning is really about the visual stimulation, the content being viewed. You goon at or to something.

    Wanking on the other hand (or with the same hand perhaps) is purely about the physical act of grabbing your cock and jerking it.

    Besides that, there are more subtle differences. Gooning implies prolonged and leisurely, for example, while wanking does not.

    You’d never say you had a “quick goon,” but you could certainly say you had a “quick wank.”

    So don’t worry, wanking isn’t dying out any time soon.

    EDIT: Added a handy reference table

    Activity Type Visual Stimulation Duration Gender Neutral
    Gooning Mental Required (Typically porn) Long Yes
    Wanking Physical Optional Long OR Short No (Requires penis)


  • The “Turbo” function was a masterstroke of marketing.

    The actual function of the turbo is to slow the machine down, so it can be compatible with older games and software that ran too quickly on those newer systems.

    Of course calling it a “slow down” button wasn’t very sexy, so just flip the function around and label it turbo instead!


  • What if I am attracted to trans girls with huge cocks, or beefcake lumberjack guys who are into chastity?

    Gender itself isn’t a neat tidy line from Male to Female that people fit on, it’s more complicated. And if gender itself is more complicated than a line, how can we use a line to model attraction to it?








  • tiramichu@sh.itjust.workstoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldThat is great
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    7 days ago

    That’s great advice, but I find myself amused that even when you give an example of being direct and setting expectations for what you want and need, there still has to be a load of social hedging to make the reason more palletable.

    The “tired from work” thing conveniently externalises the cause so that neither you nor the hairdresser needs to be part of the reason.

    If we could say exactly what we want to say and mean, it would be “I don’t like small-talk and I don’t want any with you, not today, not next time, and not any future time. I just want you to cut my hair.”

    But no, the raw truth could both offend the hairdresser and make them think there’s something wrong with you, so “tired from work” it is.



  • tiramichu@sh.itjust.workstoMental Health@lemmy.worldDo you agree?
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    9 days ago

    Exactly. The black sheep is simply someone that doesn’t fit in, for whatever reason.

    Sometimes they are the one nice person in an asshole family, like OP implied, but equally they could be the one asshole in a nice family.

    “Black Sheep” says nothing about the individual identified as the sheep. The only constants in the situation are that the large group, the family, will always think they are in the right and there is something wrong with the sheep, while the sheep will always think he or she is in the right and there is something wrong with the family.

    Who is really in the right will vary.