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Cake day: February 22nd, 2026

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  • Friend. The argument isn’t “you should judge something by its reputation”. The argument is people do that. It is a heuristic or whatever you call that kind of shortcuts.

    It is impossible to assess the validity of every source and detail. We rely on trust and reputation and other signals. It’s faster, cheaper, and good enough for most things. When your friend you and trust says “I’ve got some free candy in the van” you probably respond differently than when a blood soaked stranger does.

    I’m not saying we should rely on this entirely. I’m simply saying that’s a fact of life. People save effort by not critically evaluating everything from first principles when they can just go “my friend recommended it, this Taco place is probably good”. It could be a horrible taco place! But it’s faster to go by something like in-group recommendations than a full research project.

    I feel like I’m repeating myself into the void. Surely you don’t all launch extensive research projects for every piece of information and decision that you come across.

    This whole damned thread started from someone saying

    Criticism is not evaluated by where it comes from, but by whether it’s true or false.

    And that’s just not how humans act all of the time! Sometimes, often, they don’t think through everything. They don’t research. They look at the source and go “nah”.

    You can argue that’s bad, and sure it often is. But that doesn’t change the fact that that’s how people behave.






  • And I’m saying people do exactly that. They read a tabloid that says anything and they go “yeah I don’t trust the enquirer” and either dismiss it, or find another source to confirm.

    Surely you don’t trust the factual claims of a tabloid as much as a reputable paper, or an unkempt man screaming on the street corner as much as your history professor.









  • The song game. I feel like a lot of people have come up with it naturally.

    One person plays a song. The next person has to then play a song with some sort of connection to it. Like, you could follow the velvet underground’s “Sunday Morning” with Nirvana’s “Lithium” because it has the line “Sunday morning is every day for all I care”. Any connection is valid so long as the group accepts it, but I prefer lyrical ones myself.

    That’s it. You go around until you lose interest.

    I like it as a way to share music, because to do well you typically have to actually listen with their song.