🌞 Alexander Daychilde 🌞

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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • ADHD here with AuDHD wife, so please forgive me if this doesn’t help you. The only thing that helps me is breaking down tasks into smaller and smaller bits.

    I have absolutely made myself a deal that I will go to the kitchen, turn the light on, and check the dishwasher to see if there’s dirty or clean dishes in there, and then I can go back to my desk and take a break if I need to.

    I find that often enough if I can get myself to go to the room that needs the work and to make the barest start, I can almost always do a bit more. Maybe only unload and load the dishwasher, but hey, that’s a load of dishes done if I can do that.

    Stuff collects on the floor in part because I’m a wheelchair user and it’s hard to reach the floor. So I have grabbers to help. And again, I will say - get a grabber and pick up a single piece of trash and I can take a break. And maybe I won’t do the whole apartment, but I’ll get a room done.

    It works in part because I really will take the break if I need to or want to and I know it. It sometimes doesn’t work because I also know very well that I don’t have to do any of that stuff if I don’t want to.




  • And conversely, I really wasn’t minimizing that, either. Because both - sitewide and subreddit bans for no good reason - are fucking dumb. lol. Sorry to have not explained myself well <3

    I think for the admins, it’s less about the power and more about shit like the reasons Musk is ruining Twitter - money, political gain. But I know they’ve abused power, too[1], so it’s probably a combo of all of that.

    But yeah, either way, reddit is rotten, and it’s a bummer, because it used to be one of the best places on the internet for good discussion, information, all sorts of crap.

    Well, here’s hoping Lemmy continues to grow. It truly does seem to remind me favorably of reddit’s early days, although I wish there was a bit more in-depth conversation on some topics. But I think I’m also a product of previous decades in that regard anyway. heh


    1. Like when a certain founder edited comments of others because they could ↩︎



  • Gonna sound like I’m minimizing your reply - please forgive me, I’m not: There’s a wild difference between subreddit bans and sitewide bans, though. Lots of shitty mods out there because all you have to do to become a mod is make a subreddit that takes off, so the fact that you do get some occasional great mods is the surprise. A sitewide ban for bullshit reasons is much stupider since the admins should be hiring people trained to admin the site properly.

    That said… still sucks very much to get unjustified bans at any level. Especially with no true appeal system in place.

    Every site will get things wrong… but it feels like reddit keeps going out of their way to make things shittier and shitter.



  • Listen, kid, I’ve been on reddit since 2009. I hung out with the admins in IRC back in the day. I was a default mod for a while, and I’m the “father” of /r/nottheonion.

    There’s plenty I don’t know about reddit and life in general, but on this topic, clearly I know a fuck ton more than you.

    There was a time on reddit when self-promotion was against the rules. That rule was dropped something like a decade ago.

    The simple fact is that - from at least the article’s telling - the subreddits wanted the content, and in that case, it is absolutely fine and encouraged for someone to submit.

    There’s a guy making youtube reviews of restaurants in my local city’s subreddit. The content is popular - people like it. So we absolutely are happy to see him post. Is it self-promotion? Yes, technically. It’s also relevant to the subreddit and desired by the mods and members of the subreddit.

    You’re like the people saying “dis a repost” when someone CROSS-posts. Note that reddit has a BUILT IN SYSTEM for cross-posting, but there are redditors who don’t know that.

    So, little boy, you can take your condescension and /r/confidentlyincorrect along with /r/iamverysmart and fucking LEARN something, or go off and continue to be willfully ignorant.

    Disclaimer: If the article’s reporting is incorrect and the subreddits considered it spam, well, that’s not what the article said, and I don’t otherwise have other knowledge of it, nor do I care enough to google for any other possible sources. But that’s the informatio you’re working off of as well, so there’s that.

    PS: To add a light-hearted end: I’ll go to /r/dontyouknowwhoiam now :) (that name seems too long. Is that the right one/ Well, you probably know what I mean and I’m too lazy to look it up :P )