Thanks, I’ll definitely give meetup a chance.

I really wish that first part were true. The closest gay bar near me is 45min+ away. Otherwise that is good advice though. I’ll seek out basic social groups i think. There just isn’t much here besides typical bars full of prejudice rednecks.

Ok, but where? And I don’t mean I solely expect to be approached, I’m sexually submissive, not socially if that makes sense.