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  • As a discipline challenge for when I search something. Do my eyes go up to the sparkle answer? Will I resist if they try to? Would I even expand the prompt? Will I cross-reference?
    Sure, if I’m gonna stick around at the article anyway, it might be easy to resist the clanker’s reply, and in bold-highlighted airing dates for Pluribus. That information is also too important to risk getting wrong anyway.
    But if it’s just an innocuous activity like foraging mushrooms, I might get weak and just sneak a little peak at sparkle’s advice.



  • adhd_traco@piefed.socialtoADHD@lemmy.worldSolitude
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    4 days ago

    I’m pretty confident it can be a lot of other reasons too. Stressful triggers, bad mental/emotional states as a result of PTSD, BPD, general anxiety, depression, over-work, etc. with all kinds of time period patterns that aren’t necessarily as general and consistent as via an introverted personality.

    I find using the concept of a social battery helps dealing with, especially when communicating with other people, as well as knowing your boundaries.








  • The defense with the feet I got from someone who had to defend themselves multiple times. I don’t remember the details, but it’s about the easier way to keep distance from their mouth without it biting onto anything… idk. I’d say, check some youtube videos or other resources of people who talk from experience. :)

    I think another important reason is to keep the face away. If you were to use your fists, you’d have to lean forward, bringing your face closer to their mouth. You’re also not allowing them to bite anywhere, like your legs. Of course, much like a knife fight, you don’t wanna be in this situation in the first place.

    The palm thing, if you’re already doing a lot of other things right, it probably doesn’t matter much. But I find it signals more intent that you mean no harm. And by the time they come that close to you, I don’t see them attacking you, like ever. And if they were to show hostile behaviour beforehand, you have time to change your hand position and stand up.




  • Stray dogs:
    If you pass somewhere and there are suddenly stray dogs in your way, just squat down and show your hands. Hands down, palms up. If they come to sniff and shit, keep your palms below their face. Basically let them come to you. When they trust you, you can pat the top of the head. But patting the top of the head before they know you can be dangerous, as you might use them to hit them, for example.

    Usually within seconds the whole pack comes to get some love :)

    I’ve never been attacked by a dog this way. But if a dog would come at me, actually aggressive and not slow down, I hear you should use your feet to defend yourself.

    Don’t just walk through their territory.





  • When driving in a car or bus, I tap my feet between every one of those strips in the middle of the road. Also for street lamps, or anything else that repeats along the way.

    I don’t always do this, and could also tap my fingers or stuff, but very often do.

    Alt-text: Drawing of a road, with red dots between those lines in the middle of the road, indicating where I tap, when I cross it.

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  • The app’s privacy settings claim that users can disable this data collection by turning off “AppCloud” in the app list. But, according to SMEX, deletion requires the user to submit a form that does not exist, making it impossible to fully remove, at least without advanced technical expertise.

    Hm, I just uninstall AppCloud no problem in a non-rooted, stock android in and from the region.
    It also showed the URI or whatever of com.something.aura.

    However, can’t find any Aura app.

    Looks like Aura app gets installed by AppCloud. I’m a bit frustrated I can’t find a list of apps known to be installed by AppCloud, or that include this *.aura.* URI. I mean this should be relevant for a shit ton of people and could be easily crowdsourced.