• 0 Posts
  • 41 Comments
Joined 1 year ago
cake
Cake day: July 31st, 2023

help-circle

  • Much more dubious is Buddhism’s claim that perceiving yourself as in some sense unreal will make you happier and more compassionate. Ideally, as the British psychologist and Zen practitioner Susan Blackmore writes in The Meme Machine, when you embrace your essential selflessness, “guilt, shame, embarrassment, self-doubt, and fear of failure ebb away and you become, contrary to expectation, a better neighbor.” But most people are distressed by sensations of unreality, which are quite common and can be induced by drugs, fatigue, trauma, and mental illness as well as by meditation.

    I find this particular angle of criticism trite.

    Are most people distressed by sensations of unreality? Maybe. Some, for sure. But so what?

    Isn’t the sensation of distress a sensation to move through by perceiving its “unrealness”? Seems to me the discomfort is, in many cases, the finger pointing at the moon. Be with it and the opportunity to disappear your suffering about it arises.

    If you disappear enough suffering, what’s left? Something new… new opportunities for being… opportunities for compassion and wisdom… and those opportunities would almost certainly have never arisen inside the prison of sensation escapism.



















  • The Tao that can be told is not the eternal Tao. The name that can be named is not the eternal name. The nameless is the beginning of heaven and earth. The named is the mother of ten thousand things. Ever desireless, one can see the mystery. Ever desiring, one can see the manifestations. These two spring from the same source but differ in name;      this appears as darkness. Darkness within darkness. The gate to all mystery.

    Tao Te Ching Chapter 1