The local Albertan, rediscovering what it means to be me. May play devil’s advocate at times, as I like being nuanced.

Enjoys electronic music, adorable art, rhythm games, and perogies among other things.

I have lemmy.world and piefed.world blocked. Sorry, too much American politics and an unfortunate amount of casual transphobia for my liking. Feels like talking to a brick wall with people and I can’t be bothered anymore.

Also have lemmy.ml blocked for transphobia and gross dismissal of human rights issues in China by the admins.

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  • Admittedly no.

    Feels gross saying that, but for me being demi, the physical intimacy with sex is something that honestly takes a lot of time to build up for me alongside that romantic attraction, and I feel it’s best if I find someone on the same page on that front.

    I’m not saying it’s impossible for someone who’s worked in the sex industry to be able to do that, but I’d best match with someone else who also personally sees that as something solely reserved for those they feel a heavy romantic attraction for seeing how we’d be on the same page from the get-go.
















  • I had an idea for a community called “shitty art prompts” where people would give bizarre prompts for art for others to work with, but haven’t come around to creating it mainly because I can’t draw for the life of me, and it wouldn’t sit right with me if I created and moderated a community I didn’t have the proper talents to contribute to.



















  • Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zonenothing to rulepent for uwu
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    Thanks for that.

    If I’m sitting on a busy bus for example, and two people, a couple, sit in front of me and start making out with some tongue on tongue action, I’m going to be disturbed. I’m not comfortable with that, and I didn’t consent to seeing that.

    People have their kinks and sexually intimate acts that they’re into. Consent on both parties is important, but what’s important as well is the consent of people around you in seeing that. A regular kiss, hug, or other purely romantic or platonic show of affection you don’t need other people’s consent for, so a person claiming “consent” when gay people hold hands or kiss in front of them is just a bigot.

    For the same reason I wouldn’t send a picture of kink art I know a friend isn’t into without their consent, I also wouldn’t indulge in my kinks in public where I know most people won’t be into it, as they didn’t consent to, for example, seeing me on a leash in this case (not my thing, hypothetical application of the pic).