Binzy_Boi
The local Albertan, rediscovering what it means to be me. May play devil’s advocate at times, as I like being nuanced.
Enjoys electronic music, adorable art, rhythm games, and perogies among other things.
I have lemmy.world and piefed.world blocked. Sorry, too much American politics and an unfortunate amount of casual transphobia for my liking. Feels like talking to a brick wall with people and I can’t be bothered anymore.
Also have lemmy.ml blocked for transphobia and gross dismissal of human rights issues in China by the admins.
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The doc diagnosing me with psychopathy after showing up to his office in socks and sandals.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato MeanwhileOnGrad@sh.itjust.works•Prominent .ml'r on what's a "propaganda outlet"English21·2 天前We’re on the same team
So you support Zohran?
When I created the community on the old account, I used to have it in the sidebar. This was a few months back, perhaps May or June.
Grizzly would likely be the one to handle it since before I deleted the old account, I transferred mod perms to them and Evkob.
Me, (not) a trans woman, planting a glitter bomb filled with estrogen in the office lunchroom to turn my coworkers trans.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato Ask@piefed.social•You get to invent one snack, what are you inventing?English3·6 天前Deep-fried freezies.
Oh dope, thanks for showing me this!
I had an idea for a community called “shitty art prompts” where people would give bizarre prompts for art for others to work with, but haven’t come around to creating it mainly because I can’t draw for the life of me, and it wouldn’t sit right with me if I created and moderated a community I didn’t have the proper talents to contribute to.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato Casual Conversation@piefed.social•Music Monday [Week 39] - What have you been listening to lately?English1·7 天前Two whole albums by katagiri. かたぎりは電気狐の夢を見るか? and たったひとつの冴えたかたぎり were both fantastic as someone who really enjoys hardcore electronic music.
GIDDY STRIKERZ by REAL SHIT BASTARDS was also a blast.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato QueerDefenseFront@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Early dropoff in girls' school sports linked to new gender confirmation formsEnglish26·8 天前Yeesh, this literally hits close to home, I know the exact area that picture is from like the back of my hand.
Why is it so hard to just have co-ed teams? That would solve just about all of this nonsense.
I like some of her stuff for nostalgia reasons. Shake It Off would play all the time at my first workplace, and to date that was my favourite job.
I went into a Showcase once not knowing what Dubai Chocolate was, and apparently so many people were stealing them they had to have them available behind the counter for the cashier to hand out after payment was received.
My Nana in England insists that the very things my friends like the most of British television are the things she hates the most lol. Doesn’t like Monty Python, doesn’t like Dr. Who, and hates Jeremy Clarkson so much she can’t stand the sight of him on “the telly”, so that’s a no for Top Gear.
TikTok.
Not even a hate train thing, I just find the format of the platform confusing and it’s never personally “clicked” for me.
Can’t be that surprised however since I feel the same of Instagram and Pinterest. To each their own, but I never fully understood the appeal.
Binzy_Boi@piefed.cato Canada@lemmy.ca•Bonnie Crombie to step down as Ontario Liberal leader after weak show of supportEnglish2·12 天前Unrelated to the actual content of the article, but I hate how I keep mixing up her and Bonnie Critchley even after the by-election.
For what reason other than arousal would someone wear one?
This doesn’t count baby leashes btw, which are at the back and not the neck and are used to prevent a kid from getting lost or wandering off into danger (when used properly).
Thanks for that.
If I’m sitting on a busy bus for example, and two people, a couple, sit in front of me and start making out with some tongue on tongue action, I’m going to be disturbed. I’m not comfortable with that, and I didn’t consent to seeing that.
People have their kinks and sexually intimate acts that they’re into. Consent on both parties is important, but what’s important as well is the consent of people around you in seeing that. A regular kiss, hug, or other purely romantic or platonic show of affection you don’t need other people’s consent for, so a person claiming “consent” when gay people hold hands or kiss in front of them is just a bigot.
For the same reason I wouldn’t send a picture of kink art I know a friend isn’t into without their consent, I also wouldn’t indulge in my kinks in public where I know most people won’t be into it, as they didn’t consent to, for example, seeing me on a leash in this case (not my thing, hypothetical application of the pic).
Wow, using the same words I did as some sort of cheap “gotcha”, aren’t you smart?
I’m not gonna engage with you if you’re not gonna come to the table with anything of value to add.
Admittedly no.
Feels gross saying that, but for me being demi, the physical intimacy with sex is something that honestly takes a lot of time to build up for me alongside that romantic attraction, and I feel it’s best if I find someone on the same page on that front.
I’m not saying it’s impossible for someone who’s worked in the sex industry to be able to do that, but I’d best match with someone else who also personally sees that as something solely reserved for those they feel a heavy romantic attraction for seeing how we’d be on the same page from the get-go.