we’ve all got them, right? this isn’t just a me thing, right???

you meet nice people, you get to know them, and you realize that they really like you but actually you don’t like them

what’s it like for you? how do you deal?

my strategy is to just be kind and supportive but largely unavailable, but as a late-diagnosed autistic person, idk if I’m doing it right

do I need to formally break up with these people as friends or is distance enough?

maybe this belongs in /c/neurodivergent or /c/askchapo 🤔