• axont [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    You don’t need to feel insecure or anything if the situation doesn’t apply to you. I mean that in a nice way and don’t think you should feel ashamed at all if you’re in a bad spot right now. It’s enough that you’re trying to learn and do better.

    • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      Thanks. Idk why but these posts do make me feel insecure. I know when people here mock people like this they dont mean the neurodiverse but I still feel the need to remind them about us because I feel like we’re collateral damage.

      • axont [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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        1 year ago

        It’s a normal thing to get food delivered, and especially normal if you’re disabled, but maybe excessive in some cases in the guy who spent $25k a year on it.

        Maybe there are meal services that deliver food to disabled people in your area? You could possibly take advantage of that. If you would otherwise go with a restaurant I’d always recommend seeing if the restaurant itself offers delivery instead of using grubhub/doordash/etc. You often save money that way and also the driver will be paid better. And tip generously.

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          1 year ago

          There’s a restaurant near where I live that does delivery through their website. I order and it turns out they outsource to doordash.

        • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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          1 year ago

          Most weeks me and my staff cook enough food for 6/7 days! Even if its the same thing every day it usually works ok. But also my stomach is not used to small portion sizes so i usually cook some pasta or something late in the day which isnt healthy :/ But Im working on it.

          I try to get direct delivery from local places. I use doordash and grubhub for chains that dont deliver on their own.