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  • OldEggNewTricks@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    just trying to do what you think is attractive

    Oh yeah, that’s been a total brain-melt for me too. I think I’m starting to see a difference between “be her” and “be with her” attraction, but so far I’ve just been trying things out at random :)

    I forget where it was, but I saw some photos recently of plus-size models (proportionally larger than me, I think) who were wearing skirts really well. Apparently there’s some idea of “dressing for body shape” which I guess I need to figure out…

    Fashion be damned, I’m gonna wear a skater skirt and stripy socks at least once.