This might be the coolest outfit I’ve ever worn…but I’m just not feeling it today.

I feel like my ass is too flat, my stomach is too fat, my hips are a lie, my waist is an average masculine waist, my thighs are just a complete mess shapewise. Meh.

Just a bad day. Hope everyone is having a better one 💜





The seems on this top are done in an incredibly clever way tho. They really emphasize your boobs, even when you’re completely flat (like yours truly 😆)
And it’s black! I love black. I really like this one

  • nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 天前

    you are your own biggest critic, you look great :) tank tops love necklaces BTW!

    also if you’re after things that exxagerate your curves look into high-rise pants and a belt, thats my daily wear at work and it feels great to have the belt hug my waist

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      3 天前

      Awwww, thank you Nikki 🥺

      tank tops love necklaces BTW!

      I NEED one so baad, I know 😭
      I’ll bother my bf about getting me one when I get back home 😆

      also if you’re after things that exxagerate your curves look into high-rise pants and a belt

      You’re right…I purposefully got low-waisted jorts to show off more of my waist…and it didn’t quite work as expected.
      BUT, I think that if I stick to the high-waisted ones (the other pair of jorts I own 😆) along with my grommet belt, paint my nails black, maybe wear a black choker and also add some makeup with a darker lipstick (I have a dark purple one, might work, might not, will try) I might just totally slay…in my head, I think it’s a good idea, anyway.
      Everything will be black and I really like black! I think it’ll be more of a rock-ish look, however…

      Spoiler

      …at least I’ll be a rock bottom 😆
      (Terrible joke, I’m sorryyy 😭)

      Thank you so much Nikki. Love your pics, you’re super pretty! Thanks girl 🩷

  • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 天前

    Im so sorry your feeling that way today buuuut

    Youre killing it girl! On everything youre a little hottie 😍

    I feel the waist and stomach thing tho 😭 geez i eat one too many crackers or chips or something and suddenly im bloated like a 3 week old beached whale grrrrrr 😤

    Keep it up sister! Its hard to feel yourself everyday, even for cis people. I hope it gets better ❤️❤️

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      2 天前

      Thank you so much 🖤
      I’m NOT a hottie 😭. You’re the hottie here Brooke, and I envy you. I hope I can look as good as you some day…

      Keep it up sister! Its hard to feel yourself everyday, even for cis people. I hope it gets better ❤️❤️

      Thank youuuu, you’re so nice 😭
      Honestly, thank you 💜

      • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        2 天前

        Girrrrll i would do horrible things for your waistline!

        Appreciate you so much, and im just thinking instead of comparing to ourselves how bout i just say were both hotties?! 😂

        Its hard for me to believe, but thank you sooo much. I have a hard time recognizing my own beauty, just like everyone else here lol

        Your always welsome, reach out anytime if you need, and keep being hot!!! 😍😍

        • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          2 天前

          Girrrrll i would do horrible things for your waistline!

          Nyoooo, please don’t do anything bad 😭
          You can have it…for free…

          how bout i just say were both hotties?!

          Hmmm. Well, if you say we’re both hotties, that means first and foremost you’re a hottie, and if you say you’re a hottie, I’m happy. So…sure? 😆

          Its hard for me to believe, but thank you sooo much. I have a hard time recognizing my own beauty, just like everyone else here lol

          It’s the curse of being trans, unfortunately. I feel you sister 🫂
          Please, try to recognize it at least a bit…you really are a hottie, Brooke. And I’m definitely not the only one who sees that 🩷

          Tysm 💜
          Best I can do is try to be not ugly (and probably fail 😆), but I’ll do my best. Thanks Brooke ❤️

  • Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 天前

    Gosh, a little cami like that is my entire transition wardrobe goals. I feel like if I could look that cute in a little cami I’m in the place I want to be.

    I haven’t bought one yet because brainworms but I’m gonna. I just bought a crop top and miniskirt and a minidress. I love the way the crop top looks on me and but the others haven’t arrived yet.

    You look incredible, please continue slaying queen.

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      3 天前

      Domiii 😭
      Tysm! ♥️

      Crop tops totally are the best tho 😆
      Actually, please…you continue slaying. You’re so pretty omfg 😭

      Thank you Domi 🖤

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      2 天前

      Omg, tysm 😭
      I just wish…the things under the nice clothing would be equally as adorable 😔
      It’s my dysphoria talking, sorry

      • Hexarei@beehaw.org
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        1 天前

        Ma’am you have an enviable body and I can only hope to some day be shaped like you (:

        • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          1 天前

          Nyooo, don’t say thaaat 😭
          You definitely don’t want to be me-shaped…the contrast between “not much fat” on most of my body and my somehow still fat belly is just…depressing and hilarious at the same time 😂

          Thank you tho. I am flattered 🩷

  • RedSeries (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 天前

    A nice necklace and something for at least one of your wrists and you’re pretty much set (some bracelets, maybe a cute watch, some hair ties, etc). You already pull this outfit off so well!

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      3 天前

      Thank you 🩷
      I do have a nice bracelet, it was a gift from by best friend (the one who saw my boobs, ironically). It’s also black, so it should go well together!

      Also…is wearing hair ties as bracelets something people really do? I honestly just thought it was a meme…even tho I do see it as practical, lol

      I’ll totally build on this outfit when I come back home tho, also when I feel better. Tysm! 🖤

      • RedSeries (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        3 天前

        I tend to bring a hair tie with me when I go out and I just put it on my wrist. It is due to practical reasons, but it kinda adds to the look I think. It’s basically an accessory with a practical purpose. I have a few bracelets I rotate with a hair tie normally though.

        • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          2 天前

          I imagine it would look really nice! I’ll try it sometime, thanks ❤️
          It would be practical tho…I’m sure my bf would be pleased 🤭

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    3 天前

    You look absolutely gorgeous! You are not giving yourself enough credit, I’d kill to look half as good as you

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    3 天前

    Okayish if you exclude something I’m not talking about here.

    But you look amazing girl :3 I love black clothes. I love the vibe.

    (Honestly I would love to have some more flashy outfit with lots of colors. Probably at some point when money allows it)

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Okayish if you exclude something I’m not talking about here

      Well thanks, now I won’t stop thinking about it 😭
      Tell me on Matrix? Pretty please? 🥺
      Otherwise this will literally keep me awake at night, not even joking…
      Is it my thighs? My butt? Is my skin bad? Is my stomach too fat? I must know 😭

      And thanks for the compliments 🩷. I’m sure that flashy outfits would look great on you! You’re pretty :3

      • Lily@lemmy.zip
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        2 天前

        I’m really sorry! Sometimes I’m having trouble to explain myself.

        I just meant about my own state of mind since you asked about how if we were having a better day than you. >< Basically something about family troubles.

        Sorry I made you feel that. I would never do that. I would be a freaking hypocrite if I were too. You’re beautiful a lot more than I do.