Honestly, I don’t know. I’m “not trans” at work, just one of the guys. I have a transflag tardis sticker on my water bottle and no one has said anything. I know one transmasc guy at work and he doesn’t have any issues that I can tell. There is absolutely some hate, but I only know one guy who is an open peice of shit about it. It is definitely a white, right wing, cis-male dominated feild here in Nebraska but hate speech of any kind will still get you fired. Most guys don’t seem to care about anything other than your B.O. and doing your job. I love being an electrician. I get to learn things every day, I get to work with my hand, make functional art. After spending months of working your ass off, when you finally get to flip that switch and see all 50 lights come on is truly an experience. When half of them don’t and you have to track down why sucks but being able to explain to the apprentice why your wire connections being tight matters makes it worth it. It’s a job like any other, but I’ve been doing it for over 10 years and out or not ill be doing it 10 years from now. I’ll never be able to wear a dress to work, but I can slip into whatever I want when I get home.
Nissa
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Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•A friend was clearing out her closet and gave me a few things, including this skirt :3English
3·15 hours agoLegs together, arms straight with wrists at 90*, bend at the knees
or just blush, wink, and giggle
Practice makes perfect!
That dress looks absolutely lovely on you! I’m so happy you feel comfortable sharing
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Very happy with this movie night fit 🩷English
2·17 hours agoI wish I could look so good, let alone feel comfortable going out! You have fun now, i hope you enjoy the movie. What are you seeing by the way?
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•A friend was clearing out her closet and gave me a few things, including this skirt :3English
7·17 hours agoOh my god girl, you look absolutely fabulous! That is one hell of a steal. The down side is not your thighs sticking, it’s you not having that skirt earlier
Congratulations! This is wonderful news, I’m sure time will fly and it’ll be here in > no time at all. Sounds like you are already having a fantastic day and an evening to match coming up. Enjoy it you deserve it!
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•i feel so comfortable I love my new hair color!!English
8·4 days agoLooks absolutely stunning! Stay comfy while you slay, girl!
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Haven't posted a selfie from my parents house in a while LOLEnglish
8·9 days agoGosh your so pretty! The shot really makes me feel at home! I need to get better with my teeth, I promise to brush tonight.
I’m sorry your partner isn’t super on board, I consider myself super lucky. She’s definitely confused but wants me to be me, happy and free. I really try and explain everything to her and I know its alot but she’s doing her best. This is what I have:
https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1
Also a chastity belt thay helps hold it high and tight really helps.
I’m not quite your size. 6’1" 185lbs but definitely more of a grower for sure. Going from like 2" to 6 or 7"? I don’t really measure it. It would be awesome to have a data base like that. I got a special body tape measure that’s been helping figure out my sizes but as all women lament there are vast inconsistencies in sizing.
I hope that helps, thanks for you input!
I will definitely look into it. It’s always better to have options. Thanks for the advice!
Thanks this is really helpful! It’s alot of information to take in but I feel like I have a better understanding of my body. I really appreciate it!
Out side of the described issues I honestly love it. I’m only on day two but it makes me feel way more feminine. I love not feeling stuff down there, the feeling of my thighs touching, of not having to constantly adjust. If you want to try it out it’s like a $60 investment i got this:
https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1
Highly recommend getting a support belt too it helps keep it high and tight.
You do you girly!
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg🥚🔥irl
12·11 days agoWelcome to the family, we’re so happy you’re here! We all love and support you! I’m 36 so I know know how weird it is figuring this out late when the signs have always been there. Every little step you take is going to fill you with joy and reinforce what you know deep down. You are not alone. You got this!
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•[cw: dysphoria] Boymoding is getting harder and harder to bearEnglish
13·11 days agoThis is so wonderful, I can’t believe how quickly you were able to leave the house!!! I’m sorry the dysphoria is so strong when you’re required to boymode, I haven’t been able to girlmode all week. It’s bearable for me, visualization helps alot, I’m dying to get home, take a bath, shave my legs, and put on a skirt. You are an inspiration to us all, and I can’t wait to be able to girlmode around my friends and eventually in public.
Thank you for sharing!
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I was adorable at my show tonight and I wanted to share!English
6·12 days agoThat’s wonderful! So glad to hear it!
If you are comfortable, Arms, Train, Pactice! A gun is useless if you don’t know how to use it. Safety first! Treat every gun as if its loaded, do not point a gun at anything you don’t want to die, fingers off the triggers till you are ready to fire, keep your gun clean and well oiled. Keeps guns unloaded, locked up, and away from children. A gun is not a toy, it is a tool and a last resort at that. Flee, hide, negotiate, if all else fails or you fear you or those around you are in immediate danger, stay calm, deep breaths, exhale before pulling the trigger.
Please correct me if I’m wrong
Edit: spelling
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•"Oh, I didn't know you are a trans woman"English
20·12 days agoThat is soooo so wonderful! Super happy for you!
Nissa@lemmy.worldto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I was adorable at my show tonight and I wanted to share!English
7·12 days agoAbsolutely gorgeous! How did the show go? Did you have fun?
That is really helpful thank you! Not gunna lie it’s alot, but it’s really good information and I really appreciate it! I feel like I already have a solid foundation on how to use breast forms, and knowing I can reach out really helps.


Do it! Join the union! Become a better electrician than me!