Depends on the consumption, I think. Amateur porn I think is likely to give a better view of sex in general. But the stuff you see on the front page of whatever site is… Kinda revolting (in my opinion of course). To expand on that, the male gaze that is present on some of the videos on the front pages is a very demeaning gaze, it seems. Slapping and choking seem to have become a thing all of the sudden. Not to mention any number of women looking like they’re choking and gagging while doing oral.
Granted, maybe I’m a bit of a prude. I am also gay af and have come to resent the male gaze in a large number of ways. Not to mention the seeming rise in hatred for women in general, it makes that sort of porn just gross. (Sorry if I’ve yucked anyone’s yum)
Depends on the consumption, I think. Amateur porn I think is likely to give a better view of sex in general. But the stuff you see on the front page of whatever site is… Kinda revolting (in my opinion of course). To expand on that, the male gaze that is present on some of the videos on the front pages is a very demeaning gaze, it seems. Slapping and choking seem to have become a thing all of the sudden. Not to mention any number of women looking like they’re choking and gagging while doing oral.
Granted, maybe I’m a bit of a prude. I am also gay af and have come to resent the male gaze in a large number of ways. Not to mention the seeming rise in hatred for women in general, it makes that sort of porn just gross. (Sorry if I’ve yucked anyone’s yum)
Amateur is the best stuff and I agree with pretty much everything you said, except:
This is something I really enjoy a lot so I like seeing it in porn 🫣
But this is one that I also find gross, not sexy at all, and will immediately switch to something else.
And I don’t feel like you really yucked anyone’s yum 💚