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      I read about this from Erin Reed. She said that there was 1) no place on the rules of the petition that said she had to list it and 2) no place to write it in on the petition

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      It’s also a law that’s been on the books years, and last modified in 1995. It’s a common sense law. Candidates should not be able to hide past indiscretions with a name change. It has nothing to do with trans issues or dead names.

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        Candidates should be able to hide past indiscretions with a name change.

        unfortunate typo

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          You don’t get to change your first name my marriage, and generally, records are not sealed so people can find out their maiden name. Changing your name via court order can be sealed and often involves changing both first and last names.

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              Come on! You can do it better than reddit. Dont be a douchebag and just complain. Make this environment better and friendlier.

              If you think someone is just wrong. Let him be, dont comment like this. Do it better than reddit.

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          She also directly said she agrees with the law.

          People are framing this as some anti-trans law, when that has nothing to do with the original law. In 1995, 99.9% of people had no idea what a deadname is.

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      “Recent” being within 5 years seems understandable in a general political context, however is a little cruel to trans people who usually don’t want their deadnames out in the public. Would this ruling be applied the same way to married people who changed their name?

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        Would this ruling be applied the same way to married people who changed their name?

        You would know if you would read the article.

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          I was being rhetorical- I know that they aren’t applying it to married people. But why? Wouldn’t the same reasoning hold, that you could use it to defraud? If not, why wouldn’t changing your name to transition not be in the same category of life event as marriage?

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        or, hear me out. if you’re running for political office, you deal with such things like an adult. deadname or not, this person would face MUCH more harsh situations in office than having to put a name you don’t go by anymore.

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          I’m afraid that’s a pretty poor argument. It’s not inherently more mature to subject yourself things that harm you because there exist things that can harm you out in the world.

          Please try listening to trans people about their experiences. Deadnaming isn’t just using a old name. For a lot of people, it’s kind of like being called the worst nickname your high school bully had for you, except that everyone in your life, your parents, your friends, everyone, has only called you that for years and years. Some people have a better or at least neutral relationship to their deadname, but it’s still considered incredibly impolite to reference generally speaking.

          In regards to this rule, I don’t see a legitimate argument for excluding name changes from marriage and not similarly applying this exception for name changes for trans people (ie associated with a gender marker change, if we want similar criteria to differentiate from other name changes). Both are life events that should be considered normal and regular and not associated with potential fraud. Either this rule applies equally to everyone, or it shouldn’t be applied at all (like it hasn’t been applied in decades to the extent that it isn’t even on the official form).

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              that it has nothing to do with people that think they are something they are not

              Thanks for the explicit transphobia, I’m not interested in continuing this conversation either. Trans people are a normal part of life and until you come to terms with that, you should keep their names out of your mouth.

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                  Do you ever get tired of being a complete and utter piece of shit? Your whole comment history is mostly just you being an unempathetic asshole. Must be nice to not give a shit about anyone but yourself, really simplifies life I bet.

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              Loads of scammers change only their last names, so I don’t really buy that it’s that different. They should require names changed by marriage too if they want the purpose of this to be for tricking the public. If not, then I question how necessary it is in the first place. It’s not a big deal for Cis folks, but it is for Trans folks, so it should be reconsidered.

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      As if the transphobes only want to hear their deadnames to stroke their egos.

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      Good clarification. The title is still correct though. They still want her to use her prior name, just not exclusively so.

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            I feel like you’re being a bit obtuse, use in the sense of what she’s running under. The headline and tenor of all this is trying to mislead folks into the narrative that she is being forced to run and be identified according to her dead-name or whatever.

            That’s all, no need to continue this line of inquiry

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              It literally is requiring her to be identified by her deadname. Which is why “use” is the correct term. It actually is meaningful, even if you don’t realize that it is. It’s not just a technicality.

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                It’s requiring her to list what her deadname is, which is a far cry from using her deadname.

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                It’s not requiring her to identify by that name. The requirement is that it is listed on the petition as a name change. ‘use’ is not the right word and ‘list’ or ‘include’ are better options.

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            No it isn’t. I had to disclose my prior name when registering to vote, for my passport and driving license applications, and for my working with children check.

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              That’s using your name. You had to use your name to do those things. You can say it’s fine. But understanding that you’re using that name might help you understand one of the difficulties of being trans.

              I’m not trying to be difficult or win an argument or anything. This is just a real example of how a trans person has to deal with being deadnamed.

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                Yeah, this is an interesting case, the public has a legitimate interest to know the previous identity of a candidate, and the candidate has a legitimate interest in disassociating with their previous identity.

                Thankfully Americans are known to approach such cases with compassion and nuance, surely.

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                  *prior identity of someone who didn’t change their name when married apparently. Just anyone who changed their name legally for any other reason, like going back to their maiden name, being transgender, or wanting to change their name for any other number of reasons.

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                  Are people made aware of the previous identity, or is it just for security’s sake in the application process?

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                I’m probably speaking out of turn here, but reporting a previous name is a simple matter of security, not deadnaming. I’m not trans, but I use my stepfather’s surname and changed to that legally when I was 18. If someone called me by my mom’s abuser’s name to my face I would be distraught, but when forms ask me for prior legal names I just list it and it’s not a big deal. It’s just an identity thing.

                The form isn’t asking “what’s your real name?” it’s asking “have you ever been known by any other legal names?”

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                  I think it’s reasonable that you need to use your previous name to help identify you for security purposes. I’m not really arguing against that.

                  But at the same time, if you did have a problem with using it at all because you had completely disassociated with it, I would understand that too.

                  A lot of people seem to be deeply offended by a modicum of empathy though.

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                It really is not what you are saying it is. You have to disclose it, not use it, because otherwise it’s an easy way to evade any background checks. No one except the recipient of your application is going to see it; using a name is not the same as disclosing it. Using it means it is employed in a manner which people will identify you as, this is not the case here.

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    The law makes sense. If someone is a convicted felon, changes their name to avoid the inevitable Google searches, and decides to run for office, that former name absolutely should be disclosed.

    What’s weird here is the limit of “past 5 years” and “excluding marriage.”

    So totally cool for a felon to change their name MORE than 5 years ago, or, simply get married, no disclosure required.

    So what even is the purpose of the law?

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      So, what you’re saying is… the law actually doesn’t make sense. It should be that if they were a convicted felon, then that should be disclosed along with their old name. All of the other conditions here seem unnecessary unless we want to include name changes in general, which then they need to add a space on the actual form to include this.

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      I think it would make more sense if you either

      a) couldn’t change your name as a convicted felon

      b) your new name would be updated in the records maybe?

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      Doesn’t being a convicted felon disqualify you from running in any case - or is that just voting?

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          Yikes - that really highlights the US’s priorities…

          If you’re a felon, you can’t represent yourself, but if you’re a felon with money, you can represent everyone.

          No taxation without representation, and no slavery… but felons aren’t real people.

          Private companies profit from confining people as cheaply as possible and exploiting their slave labour - all above board.

          The land of the free has nearly a quarter of the world’s prison population… but only ~4% of the world’s people.

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    Ohio law requires people running for political office who have changed their name within the last five years to include their former names on candidacy petitions.

    That’s not entirely unreasonable, but It seems like that’s the sort of thing they should make clear in the paperwork when you file a candidacy petition. “Have you legally changed your name in the last 5 years for any reason other than marriage?”

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      Just curious. Why make an exception for marriage? If the intention is so people can identify you if they recently knew you by your previous name, that seems even more pertinent.

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              Meh. True monogamy is quite rare in mammals.

              Used to think monogamy was very common in birds, but IRC thanks to DNA testing, we now know plenty of baby birds have a different daddy. Ie. they raise the baby together, but they have an open relationship and impregnate/get impregnated by other birds.

              Apparently that’s surprisingly rare in humans.

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                Less that they “have an open relationship” and more that the birds sneak around behind each-other’s backs. Males go off and try to sneakily impregnate other females, females sneak around and try to get impregnated by other males. You find it in apes too.

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                  Isn’t this anthropomorphizing, though? Is there evidence that the mates would experience emotional distress if they learned their partners were “cheating” on them?

                  Being in a consensually monogamous relationship, I know I would and my husband would, but how much of that is cultural? I’m not really convinced it’s something that’s ubiquitous in the animal kingdom, though if you have a source about this that discredits my (admittedly amateurish) hypothesis, I’d be open to learning more.

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          No it isn’t. Religion usurped it and claim they invented it but it’s older than that

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            I’d be curious about this claim. There’s pair bonding in other species, and other species that are (mostly) monogamous, but an explicit formal declaration of a monogamous pairing is something that doesn’t happen until you have some kind of culture and by the time we have any kinds of surviving records (even mostly coherent oral traditions) of anything religion already has it claws in a lot of things.

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        The answer is that there shouldn’t be. And a woman changing her name to match her husband’s is archaic patriarchal bullshit. I’m glad my wife decided not to do that.

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          Mine did, but that’s mostly because she didn’t change it back after the divorce from her ex was finalized because she figured we were headed in that general direction and it would save her some paperwork.

          I made a point of telling her it was up to her, and that things like both of us hyphenating her maiden name and my name were on the table if she wanted, but she wanted to take my name and I’m fine with that.

          I figured the odds are that it started as patriarchal bullshit in the most literal sense. Less claiming ownership of the woman like you are thinking and more claiming ownership of the children.

          But I suspect that a lot of cultural institutions that are considered patriarchal bullshit had their origins in trying to square the circle of wanting men to be materially responsible for their offspring and also paternity being non-certain with no obvious solution using bronze age technology. So you legally and culturally tie man and woman together, make any of their offspring legally his and bear his name, and leave it to him to make sure no other man is fathering children with her.

          Compare to groups like the Mosuo where there are no permanent pair bonds, but also men aren’t materially responsible for their offspring or raising them - children belong to their mother’s family, only. Women are still supposed to know who fathered their children, but I suspect you’ll never get away from that as a norm just to avoid half siblings breeding.

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        I’m just spit-balling here, but I assume the reason for requiring someone to disclose a recent name change is so that you don’t have someone trying to run under a new name for reasons of deception. “What’s that? Oh no, it’s okay, I know that Donald Trump can’t be on the ballot, but my name is Ronald Krump. Common mistake.”

        In most jurisdictions you can legally change your name when you get married without paying a fee or filing any other paperwork (don’t ask me if that applies to men, that’s a whole other archaic bit of bullshit). It’s therefore also the most common reason for someone to change their name, and I guess they just figured nobody would bother getting married just so they could get on a ballot with a different name.

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        I would guess it is for establishing that you meet residency requirements to be eligible to run for office and don’t have a criminal history that would disqualify you.

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        I assume because marriage requires a lot of documentation and an official process, whereas my name change only required my friends to sign a document I made.

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          It could be clerical. Changing your last name due to marriage is a different process than changing your full name.

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        You can find a name change on the marriage license. So perhaps you look up the name of the person on the marriage license and find the previous name.

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      Yeah it feels very much like a situation where a cis person with a good reason to have changed their name may have gotten a heads up instead of a disqualification

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      Ah yes, a law that sounds equal but mostly applies to women in practice due to who is most likely to change their name.

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        Changing name due to marriage is specifically excluded from this requirement, likely due to the disproportionate effect on women.

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          So it just ends up being disproportionately targeted at transgender people then.

          Sorry, I assumed it was like the TSA PreCheck which requires every name change a woman has gone through during their entire life.

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            Lots of other people change their names. Trans issues were hardly on the radar when this law was passed.

            And marriage records are a lot easier to track, and don’t involve changing first names. When someone changes their name for marriage, you can probably find out their maiden name fairly easily.

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              All legal name changes should be easy to track since it requires updating social security, insurance, driver’s licenses, and pretty much everything else.

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    I’m not disputing the rules, they just seem so damn archaic at this point. The digital era made a lot of this redundant. Got my social? The government knows who I am. Got my current ID? The government knows who I am.

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      But if it’s on the form and required, isn’t it the candidates fault for not following procedure? They just blatantly didn’t follow the rules. You shouldn’t complain about rules after you break them and if you know about them in advance.

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          If it’s not on the form, it shouldn’t be considered a requirement. I would be suing.

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            So, all relevant law should be listed in full on every piece of government paperwork?

            Because I would think the first thing you’d do when wanting to run for office is check what the requirements are and what to do when you register and what conditions are on that.

            I’d look up the form to see if there’s any mention of it, but the Ohio SoS website is offline.

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      If this person can’t follow the law/rules on the APPLICATION, why would they be trusted to follow the rules when/if they are elected to office.

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    Let’s call this what it is: erecting a humiliating barrier in front of someone to prevent them from running for office

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      That may be the effect but when was the law enacted? Unless it was the last 3 years I can’t imagine this was the intent, nobody made trans issues a big deal until the right was truly sure they couldn’t punch down on gay people anymore.

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      I was so confused for a moment, until I noticed the “race” in the title was referring to an election.

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    Isn’t listing your former legal names kind of common for just about anything government related? If she got married and took her spouse’s last name she’s be in the same boat. No?

    Also, is there no way to rectify a stupid clerical error?

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      Not really. I changed my name in Ohio about 5 years ago when I transitioned and it hasn’t really come up since. I would’ve made the same mistake since this is the name I’ve used exclusively for years except when clarifying about my past. I occasionally have to bring out my name change paperwork solely because I never got around to editing my birth certificate but these days my passport is updated so I just have to use that to prove citizenship.

      The other big reason I wouldn’t think to disclose is because this state has mandatory publication of non-marital name changes. In order to change my name I had to pay a newspaper to announce it so it’s in the public record beyond court records. I would have assumed that counted as sufficient declaration to the state that my name has been changed

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        In order to change my name I had to pay a newspaper to announce it so it’s in the public record beyond court records.

        What was your reaction to being told that?

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          I was pissed. I was a broke college student and it was like $60 that I had to scrounge together. And it wasn’t the safest thing to be openly a trans woman in Ohio at the time. I didn’t necessarily want to hide from the future, but I also didn’t want people from my past to see as I was making a lot of clean breaks at the time.

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      Changing names for marriage is actually excluded from the law, but your point still stands. Listing recent alternate names/aliases is extremely common

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      Your previous legal person sort of stops existing and a new legal person walks away. You’re obviously still responsible for everything but it may not be so easy ten years later for people to ever put the two together. If you had bad credit you may find that you suddenly have a clean slate.

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    I’d be in favor of an exception for trans people transitioning just like there’s an exception for people who just got married but it sounds like the real problem is nobody told her the requirements.

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    If you want to run for office, its your duty to understand what you are required to file. Find a lawyer who specializes in this, perhaps, or work with your local party office? Not the greatest initial performance for someone looking to serve in office.

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      Why are you downvoted lmao?

      Edit: Apparently she did try to follow everything but she found no mention of the rules even after consulting professionals and experts. So 0 fault of her.

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      FontMasterFlex, you’re clearly missing the point. It’s an unjust law that exists to keep people like her out of office. It’s another Christian right wing - sorry, I mean government - tactic to keep the other team from being allowed to play.

      It’s the same as the laws that were passed requiring abortion clinics to have 18 ft wide hallways. “We’re not banning abortion! We’re just concerned about the rights of all the 18’+ women seeking treatment!”

      Fuck unjust laws that keep people from getting into positions to overturn unjust laws.

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          it was probably not put there against trans people in the first place, I’ll give you that.

          but it definitely stops trans people from getting the work without renouncing to their own identity. it’s an unjust law against trans people, there’s no discussion of that.

          it’s not like trans people aren’t aware of the law and that’s why they don’t abide, it’s because they don’t want to give up their dignity by using their dead name.