Friends sometimes complain that they’re too big, too short, too tall, etc. I think they’re all fine, and want to let them know that. My problem is that I’m a middle aged guy and and I don’t want to give off any whiff that I’m flirting with anyone. I just want to tell people that they’re perfect and good the way they are. Are there safe ways to say it?

I feel like this is a thing that easier to do if you’re a woman? (sorry if I’m wrong)