• scops@reddthat.com
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    7 days ago

    I’ve never been a big fan of Tinder. It’s too hard to figure out who is a real person with the minimal profile info provided. I think you’re generally better off with an app that requires(or at least allows) more effort to create a profile, and/or something a bit more focused than just hookups.

    OKCupid and Feeld are the apps that work best for me. Feeld is more for kinky and/or poly people, so it narrows down the playing field a lot. I think that makes things way easier. Of my current partners, one was on OKC and the other was on Feeld.

    • BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee
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      7 days ago

      Feeld is full of late 40s-50s cucks, swingers and unicorn hunters in my neck of the woods :/ that would be fine if that’s what I was looking for but Im not. Even the “no couples” filter doesn’t stop them. They just make a single account and put that they’re a couple in the description. The only attention I’ve gotten on feeld was from DL older men that want to cheat on their wives and middle aged couples looking for a younger “bull”. Like damn, I just wanna cuddle and go on fun dates, whys it gotta be all about the most smarmy, objectifying and maladapted forms of sex over here???