Topless women win big as Colorado city drops ban
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Officials in Fort Collins decided it's not worth the money to fight for its ordinance banning women from appearing topless in public.
    • Pissnpink@feddit.ukEnglish
      491·
      2 months ago

      It’s not what you said. You’re allowed to have preferences and you’re allowed to have your own beliefs about modesty, and to be with someone that shares in those beliefs. It’s the way you said it that reveals shitty attitude towards women. You imply that all women should act in accordance to your beliefs and that they are somehow lesser for not being up to your wifey material standards. The world doesn’t need conform to you. You’re weirdly judgy and you’ll probably get mad that others are judging you and your opinion but you can’t be shitty and not expect people to be shitty back.

                • Shapillon@lemmy.worldEnglish
                  2·
                  2 months ago

                  Yeah ofc females is an issue. We have the word “women” which is more specific and less loaded.

                  And no, tits aren’t sexual by essence. No body parts are and it’s all social constructs.

                  • Peoples who don’t traditionally cover their chests don’t tend to sexualize breasts either.
                  • At some point in France, ankles used to be sexualised. It seems silly now, doesn’t it?

                  Plus lil kids tend to already see lots of tits since they feed on them.

                  Yes I am weird but I’m also right 😉

                • Shapillon@lemmy.worldEnglish
                  1·
                  2 months ago

                  The word females is an issue

                  We have this neat little concept called “women” that is specific to humans and also refers to a social role.

                  Using “female” is - by opposition - quite dehumanizing.

                  but if they got their tits out in public in-front of lil kids…. Thats ok???

                  First and foremost, kids spent their first few monthes suckling on tits. They kinda know what they look like. Or should breastfeeding women hide their breast from their infants? 🤣

                  Then sexualising parts of the human body is a social construct:

                  • Peoples who don’t usually cover their chests don’t tend to sexualise breasts either.
                  • At some point it was considered inappropriate to show your ankles for a woman. It seems silly now doesn’t it?

                  So since human breasts (and any body part by extension) aren’t intrinsically sexual, there should be no issue showing them to anyone, kids included.

                  (Otoh I am obv not condoning any interactions with any kind of sexual intent with minors or young adults with a significant age gap)

                  Youre weird af

                  I am but I am also right 😉

        • jerkface@lemmy.caEnglish
          92·
          2 months ago

          They can’t find partners because MEN ARE AWFUL. Men (especially young men) are swinging so hard into fascism. Meanwhile, women are swinging the other way; or maybe standing still while the Overton window is dragged away from them. If you are looking for a man under 30, and you are not also a man under 30, you are fucked.

          You might have just as well pointed at all the young fascists who can’t find tradwives because they are so fucking toxic. Blaming women is arbitrary.

      • NastyNative@mander.xyzEnglish
        235·
        2 months ago

        They are all hard working family men. It don’t get better than that! Their wives dont think showing her tits in public is a good thing either.

    • mishielda1234@lemmy.worldEnglish
      161·
      2 months ago

      Hmmm it’s almost as if men’s opinion on this matter shouldn’t matter nearly as much as women’s

      • NastyNative@mander.xyzEnglish
        334·
        2 months ago

        Until they want to get married. Women give access to dating we men give access to marriage. We dont want to marry a 304. Thats why there is a pandemic of single females and its only going to get worst specially if we keep pushing this shit.

        • lady_maria@lemmy.worldEnglish
          211·
          2 months ago

          We dont want to marry a 304.

          Plenty of "304"s ARE married. Sorry to disappoint.

          a pandemic of single females

          This is so funny to me, because single women are overall happier than married women, and for very good reasons.

          This is far from being a pandemic. It’s a liberation… from shitty men like you, who insist that they’re the prize, simply because they are men. This has been a looooonnnggg time coming.

        • turtletracks@lemmy.zipEnglish
          14·
          2 months ago

          Maybe you’re not familiar with many women, but they’re definitely not single because of a lack of options

              • Draconic NEO@lemmy.worldEnglish
                2·
                2 months ago

                Yeah this person is a serial troll. They will troll and argue about anything even if they are blatantly wrong and everyone knows they are wrong. They seem to have honestly nothing better to do, since almost all of their replies are trolling and hostility.

                • Valmond@lemmy.worldEnglish
                  2·
                  2 months ago

                  Shame the drama is so misogynistic from hes side :-/

                  But you’re right, I tagged him and I’ll leave it to downvotes :-) cheers!

                  • Draconic NEO@lemmy.worldEnglish
                    2·
                    2 months ago

                    Hopefully he will be recognized as a troll soon and he’ll end up banned either from LW or even by his own instance admin.

    • Valmond@lemmy.worldEnglish
      10·
      2 months ago

      “wIfE mAtErIaL”

      Good luck even scraping the bottom of the barrel, but I guess the Karens and the crazy ones gotta have “a breadwinner” too right I mean when you get out of moms basement and get a job.