• @Bluefruit@lemmy.world
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      219 months ago

      Great question.

      Essentially if its not interfering with your life in a meaningful way, you’re fine.

      If it causes you to miss work or if you’re unable to wait until you get home and end up doing it somewhere its not acceptable, then its an issue.

      Or not being able to stop or reduce the frequency can also mean its an issue.

      However, rather than listen to some nobody in the internet, you’d want to consult a medical professional.

      • @psycho_driver@lemmy.world
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        29 months ago

        If it causes you to miss work or if you’re unable to wait until you get home and end up doing it somewhere its not acceptable, then its an issue.

        I remember a story about some low level politician pulling off into the parking lot of a preschool to rub one out. That probably would be a good example of this.

    • @ricecake@sh.itjust.works
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      39 months ago

      Are you numb, bleeding, sore or neglecting other activities like friends, family or your job?

      You’re probably fine. Whole area’s kinda built to do that pretty regularly. So same rules as exercise.

    • @Honytawk@lemmy.zip
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      39 months ago

      21 times a month should be good enough.

      More shouldn’t be a problem either, since once every day reduces the chance of prostate cancer by 36%

        • @phorq@lemmy.ml
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          49 months ago

          If that’s what gets you off, I don’t kink shame… just enjoy in moderation, there is only so much lubrication tears can provide…

      • Neshura
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        79 months ago

        You know there’s such a thing as curiosity. Just because they asked doesn’t mean they masturbate often, or at all for that matter.