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tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Imaginary Witches@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Witch Courier Service (Spindle)English3·20 days agoThose shoes and that top !!
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoBusiness@lemmy.world•'We Currently Have No Container Ships,' Seattle Port SaysEnglish1·24 days agoFirst wave is neurodivergent and disabled to death outside.
Second wave is filling labor back up with the remaining minorities and anyone not following social order they create.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Canada@lemmy.ca•School boards hit with ransom demands linked to PowerSchool cyberattack3·26 days agoLet’s just say, the one I’ve worked at had it’s own team but someone once upon a day wanted to chop that and buy proprietary software…… then personally tweak it for use so it’s not even updated with the purchased software.
All the while half or more staff still struggle with Google Suite and general technology across ages.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Liberty Hub@lemmy.blahaj.zone•People who blame leftists and marginalized groups for their own atrocious choices are the worst1·28 days agoCurious how he’s gotten termed Steve bootlicker. I haven’t seen content in a bit and used to watch some TikTok’s relating to education and politics in Alberta for sure.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Canada@lemmy.ca•Conservatives Will Blow It by Keeping Poilievre171·28 days agoCareful though, Stephen Harper is tied up in a bunch of global white supremacy R&D
She’s been doing that since day one
She was from the extremist party which conservatives merged all right leaning parties they could to keep Alberta oil and gas proud and run by rich elite in the USA.
Also conservatives keep having investigations over corrupt internal politics and cheating for leadership within; and they keep firing anyone who probes.
Much of Alberta is polar opposite but rural and oil and gas peons keep pushing for their own demise without understanding or intentional hatred.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•Music Monday - what have you been listening to?English1·29 days agoPicking back up where I left off some years ago, working my way through more WEDNESDAY CAMPANELLA and CAPSULE, including other projects by the two individuals from CAPSULE. I hadn’t taken the time back then to go through more of their music to add to my library.
Water.
Was reconnecting with a cousin of mine, she and I got along well enough in youth but didn’t live in same city. We both had a kid at this point and started connecting because of that.
I was early in transitioning. She was in the process of her own diagnosis. Brought up some of our similarities and got me thinking about it more seriously.
Did some self testing online and was like “ah, so probably yes”
I found a fitness trainer who also happened to be autistic, agender, and have other mental health credentials. On our first consult, among other things, just deadass said I should test for autism because I was autistic according to them.
So anyways I got myself assessed within a few months of those two occurrences…. Back in December.
Here I am, AuDHD and trans (statistically accurate) and I lived past 18 (yay!)
I expect to see blue ones on lawns, fences, and littering the city over the next year or more. That’s common here. The other parties clean up pretty fast. Conservatives and their supporters trash the world.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•Am I expecting too much from my friends, or is this just a natural drift?English5·1 month agoYou got me with
I’ll call him Steve since that’s his name
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Where does victorious Canadian leader Mark Carney stand on LGBTQ+ rights?English9·1 month agoBut he has a NB kid who’s vocal and he supports his kids. He’s being very careful of wording, keeping it broad and generic that everyone has rights. Right now the trans community here locally is supporting and confident we aren’t in immediate threat from carney.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•been loving how my makeup has come out the last few daysEnglish9·1 month agoFrieren 💖
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•What are your go to tips and tricks to cope with dysphoriaEnglish1·1 month agoI agree with you.
I don’t mean to hurt anyone with me shortening my words, I’ve been getting lost in my desire to write more and liked how I wrote it.
I’ve been on my own rough journey, I was lost in my armor well up til I hit 30’s, I remember the moment I saw my self for the first time and everything started making better sense. Going out there and becoming myself was just that. I had to go out of my comfort zone, challenge my fears and make that next step to figuring myself out and becoming me. My life didn’t start when I got married, when we had our first kid. It started when I came out to myself. All those were just layers of connection on top of my self. I didn’t know my self, so I just used my 「Autistic High Masking Magic」 to make a shell and navigate the world with no self guided direction.
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tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Animemes@ani.social•Pope new anime waifu. [ARTIST MADE THIS ART BEFORE POPE DEATH, RIP]English11·1 month agoHe didn’t get much time with the new waifu apparently.
I looked much closer to the image after comments and the other hand was no good.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•What are your go to tips and tricks to cope with dysphoriaEnglish9·1 month agoPremium comment, and yes to much of this to some variety.
Go out there and become yourself. Being the new you and taking care of that new human, whether better self care or different self care, is a learning curve but the best way to go forward.
Another helpful phrase I got from someone this past year:
I am the expert on my own experience.