hauntingspectre [he/him]

Neil Gaiman wrote this years ago, and it’s something I try to remember when these conversations come up:

"I was reading a book (about interjections, oddly enough) yesterday which included the phrase “In these days of political correctness…” talking about no longer making jokes that denigrated people for their culture or for the colour of their skin. And I thought, “That’s not actually anything to do with ‘political correctness’. That’s just treating other people with respect.”

Which made me oddly happy. I started imagining a world in which we replaced the phrase “politically correct” wherever we could with “treating other people with respect”, and it made me smile.

You should try it. It’s peculiarly enlightening.

I know what you’re thinking now. You’re thinking “Oh my god, that’s treating other people with respect gone mad!”

Literally costs you nothing to treat someone with respect by using their chosen pronouns.

One of my neighbors in my old city explained that playing video games is how he found out he had a seizure disorder, and since that incident in the 90s hadn’t played a video game.

Normal humans who play video games might respond and say “damn, that sucks. If you ever decide to give them a try, here are resources so you can avoid games that might trigger that”. G*mers say “haha fuck you and your rich and fulfilling family life, you’re a loser who can’t play video games”.

And yes, I did supply him with some info about resources for games that don’t cause seizures. He said thanks, and then we went back to watching our kids play, and to my knowledge he didn’t play video games again.

No, if it’s coordinated then no one has to worry about being dimed out to the judge :) but, it’s very risky to bring it up openly, so someone has to do it, and it can’t be you, since you know you’ll vote not guilty. Prisoners dilemma type problem.

I mean, historically used, often everyone agreed “killing that gamer-word was cool and good”. That’s why there were lots of Federal civil rights trials after local juries refused to convict.

Now, it’s more likely that you’ll hang a jury rather than get 12 to agree with you, since nullification was cracked down on after all that.

Completely correct.

They typically won’t ask if you support or have heard of jury nullification during voir dire. They will leave that to the “is there any reason you feel you can’t bring a verdict in accordance with the law and judge’s instructions?” question.

Jury nullification isn’t itself illegal, so you can honestly answer “No”.

Things the judge doesn’t like, yes. Basically while you have a right to nullify a jury, you don’t have the right to SAY you’re nullifying the jury.

You’re not. If you advance jury nullification ideas within the jury room, you’ll be replaced by an alternate (if available, obviously the size of the trial will impact that). Now, there might be different laws in different states on the matter, but the ones I’m familiar with allow removal.

Best thing to do is vote not guilty (assuming the case and charge allow it), and just say you’re not convinced past a reasonable doubt.

Because making cogent, coherent, and interesting long form video essays is a significantly different skill than dunking on people in a microscopic internet forum.

I’m not so sure that they are, but in the American left, historically they’ve been the cause of a lot of splits. Like, we make fun of Trots for splitting, but recently, since the 60s on, white Maoists seem to have been the real driver of splits.

Still, the only Maoists I’ve dealt with IRL were the local ones, so it’s entirely plausible I’m painting with an overly broad brush. I tend to discount most online tendency talk as just keyboard commando stuff. If you’re busy typing out screeds about how the People’s Front of Judea screwed you over by reserving the library meeting rooms for two straight months, so that your group couldn’t book them, ya probably ain’t gonna be leading a revolution anytime soon.

I was involved with DSA for a couple years, til 2017 “officially” (I’d moved away a few months before my dues ran out). It was a weird group: a clique of succdems, a clique of idpol obsessed Maoists, and like 4 folks who wanted to engage in “normal” direct action. It got better as the Bernie obsessives left, the Maoists tried to launch their own group and split from DSA, and more folks interested in direct action joined.

Eventually (surprise!) the Maoist group fell apart and narced to the cops on each other, the direct action types took over the DSA, and I occasionally join their actions, and the succdems ran for positions within the Democratic party. I’ve not renewed my membership, though, and don’t plan on it.

And I’m still wary of self proclaimed Maoists since then. Just hearing the toughest talk from them for two years, to then find out they ratted each other out after some pretty mild police pressure.

I was taught “Asian people are good at assembling computers because they’re used to using chopsticks”

Yeah, the process of detangling a life is rough. You’ll find out things, good and bad, to help fill in the full picture of he who was as a man. There will be some good times in the process too.

Take care of yourself and those around you like he would have wanted you too!

Seriously, she and Notch are basically the same at this point: billionaires who’ve spent their “post getting wealth” lives punching down.

Imagine being able to do anything you want, and you choose to spend it being cruel to those beneath you.

The Just World fallacy is incredibly strong, particularly here in the US. It’s extremely powerful, particularly as part of the basic Protestant belief package of the country.

As far as dealing with it, there’s basically no way to go after it directly. You can stay friends, and try to move their opinions through discussion of individual events, but honestly the most effective tool against folks who believe in this is bad things happening to them in the course of their life. So, if they lose their job, they might be open to revisiting their beliefs.

It sucks, but it does fall under the “I can’t teach you to care about other people” header.

You can’t just say “Watch Black Sails” without saying you have to give that show time to come into its own. The first season is setup, the following seasons are much better.

These morons have advertised on podcasts for a couple years. They try to be self aware about the name, but it doesn’t quite work WHEN YOU’RE THE PEOPLE WHO NAMED IT.

That’s why community is the strongest survival tool, so that people can take on different roles and pool skills and aptitudes.

Good read.

Food & friends being the most important key to survival is something I’ve been telling folks for a while.

Guns are good, but you can’t boil up a gun for dinner. Plus, there will be lots of guns available from weirdos who stocked up 20 guns and had no more food than was in their cabinets.

Also, I know whenever this conversation came up on the sub, there were comrades who didn’t feel comfortable owning a gun due to mental health issues. Dehydrated/shelf stable food is cheaper and safer, so take that $ and invest it into food, supplies, vitamins, first aid kits, water treatment, nutritional supplements, etc. Rechargeable power supplies are also good, if you can afford them. An old fashioned clock radio, listening for updates, could become far more valuable than an iPhone.

A bike with a pannier radically increases your mobility and carrying capacity. Don’t forget your pets! A dog is a hunting companion, source of warmth, a guard, etc. So throw an extra bag of food or two in your supplies.

Yeah, I honestly thought my friend was going to wind up dead (multiple car wrecks while nodding, at least one OD), but it’s been one of the great pleasures of my life to see her get clean.

I’m glad it worked for you too!