#Writer | #Vulgarian | #Pervert
Hi! My name is Anais Rim. I’m a CIS Heterosexual Male. I’m #SexPositive. A #LGBTQ , #transgender, and #NeuroDivergent ally. I’ve attended #Pride rallies on and off since the 1990s. And I support the rights of #POC and #Indigenous communities.
Basically, I’m on the left and proud of it.
I’ve been a community #kinkster for decades. I believe grown adults can and should engage in healthy consensual #sex as much as they wish, including healthy #kink.
I’ve seen it. IMO the side panel explicitly says “childlike” and I can see some might have a problem with that. It suggests the purpose Ada objected to over there. And I think mods and admins might want to change that text such that it makes no reference to underage anyone in the context of porn.
Clearly, all participants are over 18. Good.
I just hit reply. Didn’t @ the user manually at all. But I’m coming from Mastodon and using the web interface. Seems like many are commenting from lemmynsfw? That should work. Maybe?
After reading Ada’s post and comments there (not removed, many were), it’s my opinion the admins there wanted to defederate lemmynsfw anyway and this was a convenient excuse.
Regardless, it’s their server. Many users there support the decision. Their right, and if the userbase wants that they’ve chosen the right instance for them. Those who don’t want that outcome will move.
It’s their server. Their choice. Thanks for your hard work!
After reading your post over at lemmynsfw, it’s pretty clear they were looking for a rationale to defederate and would have done that no matter what you did to prevent it.
You made the right choice if with an unfortunate outcome.
@twelves
There’s a screenshot I included. Posted from Mastodon so maybe the image didn’t propagate out to lemmy?