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  • Sure but that’s not the point. If someone gives good criticism, that criticism is good.

    If you don’t believe that, you’re a tribalist.

    The world gets better when everyone acknowledges and fixes their problems when they’re pointed out. It doesn’t matter at all whether it’s a good person or a bad person that points them out, what a gift it is for someone to show you your flaws.










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    No, it’s because you don’t understand trauma at all apparently.

    It’s not the cultural conversation around your first time that causes it to be traumatic.

    It is that your first time experiencing anything, is when you are most susceptible to create strong associations around it. Much more so in any intense experience.

    That’s how many phobias are created.

    I’m trying to tell you that this idea that trauma is intellectually malleable is extremely offensive, because that is not how it works.






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    Yeah, go tell sone of your female friends in real life that karaoke is comparable to their first time.

    I’m sure you will, because they’re totally comparable and you’re not a troll, right?

    I’ll wait for your screenshot showing how they reacted.

    No further replies until then.