「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」

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Cake day: April 28th, 2026

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  • Nothing to described is unheard of in Canada/the States. I’m kind of waiting for the “SIKE I WAS DESCRIBING THE US ALL ALONG” but figured I’d comment in case it was useful to anyone.

    This isn’t some trick question. I was born in Guangzhou, China. My knowledge of these employement stuff from my parents experiece in Taishan and Guangzhou (there as Taishan Hukou-holder migrant workers, so basically second class residents), as as for the US, its from Brooklyn-NY and Philly…

    Which might be kinda limited in scope…

    Its kinda interesting both US and China has these “grass greener on the other side” type of people…

    We as a species are so similar no matter where we come from





  • Its a reflective on memories… since like this shit is so fucked… I mean we only get like… what… 50-100 years here and forever die?

    So yeah, idk why I asked this question…

    Honestly when you get an existential crisis… the idea of “cringe” and “shame” doesn’t even fucking matter anymore…

    You cannot avoid death…

    Embarassing moments and stupid quesrions doesn’t matter.

    Memories are already fading away, and nostalgia is just reliving moments in space time that can not truely be re-lived again…

    Sorry if I sound cringe af, but the male brain doesn’t fully develop until 25, so I got like over a year before I could even scientifically considered “mature” or whatever that’s supposed to mean…

    TLDR: Just remembering childhood moments… the adult world is cruel, wars, oppression, corruption, injustice… don’t mind me, feel free to ignore this post.













  • As for the privacy issue:

    The only counter to this is to move to a closed end-to-end encrypted groupchat so it can’t be mass LLM analyzed…

    If you want a public forum, well… its public…

    You can’t stop a script from just grabbing all the posts/comments… and its also federated, so the bot only needs to be able to access one instance and get it…

    I mean they could simply just set up their own instance and pretend its just a benigh single-user instance… like what are you gonna do, defed all small instances preemptively? Use “login walls” to make the forum private? And somehow trust all other admins that are federated and make them also enforce a “login wall” policy?

    Its a PUBLIC forum…

    the only solution for privacy is a groupchat and only let in people that can keep a promise to not screenshot everything and give it to a LLM.




  • I have this memory of getting a 3x3 Rubik’s cube from mom for… I think either X-Mas or New Years… Not sure if “favorite” but definitely most memorable…

    I think this is the only time I didn’t have to “beg” for stuff… usually I only get stuff if I really nagged my parents a lot… and my requests get denied frequently (cuz money issues being a new immigrant) but this time I kinda just mentioned “I want that magic cube thing that I had before, I wanna solve it now”, I mentioned it like with the past two weeks, and she just went ahead and got one for me… (but its those cheap ones with the weird stickers that would eventually fall off… I kinda destroyed it cuz I’m bad at keeping stuff lol, like I broke or lost a lot of things I had) But hey, she didn’t get it because I begged, she actually wanted me to be happy… like that felt more emotional, more like a real gift than just being a “bribe” to keep me quiet and stop being annoying.

    That was during my… I think early teen years, and before that I had a cube in my early childhood like at least few years before, can’t remember much about those earlier cubes I had except as a memory of recalling another memory.

    I used to closer to her… I think I just got older and… um… life expectations (careers, sucess, expectation of being able to be independent and acquire wealth and win this game of capitalism)