Flüstrat [She/They]
🟨⬜️🟪⬛️ Freut mich. Ich bin eine Flüstrat — nonbinär und aro-ace. 🟧🟨⬜️🟦🟦
I was born before Y2K wiped us all out. I am a Manga-lover, a talker, and here for good vibes and to hopefully both learn and help others.
🏳️⚧️ Trans Rights are Human Rights 🏳️⚧️
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“Mission failed successfully.”
Cuddles are nice, I could use some now despite having to get bright-eyed and bushy-tailed for worky.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Nonbinary@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Sleep well dearies~
2·3 days agoThankies for the well-wishes~! Sleep was overall good, though my throat is sore this morning, bleh.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Just wanted you to know.English
7·3 days agoHorsing horses tell all horse,
Horse horsing is truly horse,
It’s snowing on Mt.Fuji.

Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•can you believe people say we do this for social perks?
11·4 days agoI just wanted to comment appreciation for an ally, you help more than you might think simply by being who you are, and who you are is lovely. <3
Also, “just a phase,” is such a blood-boiling phrase. Dismissing the seeking of the youth, dismissing their formative years, dismissing when they have formed. I know it is said to others post-youth but is so common towards the youth. The bitter irony is that if these so-called parents really believed it to be a phase, why then are they suppressing it? Reason being is that they do not want formation to become form, and think that abusing their children is how to accomplish it. Sickening.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•can you believe people say we do this for social perks?
10·4 days agoFor “attention,” and “perks,” and “government favoritism.”
Right…negative attention that leads damnable parents to disown their children, “perks,” such as chasers and harassment, and “government favoritism,” with the Annoying Orange in office for the Americans and [name of other stupid political leaders elsewhere].
Many men(not all, to be crystal clear) never gave a shit about women(and they still do not, the “alpha male,” self-described incels) until women they in their warped worldview made them feel “gay,” to be attracted to started to exist publicly. Then they retaliated to project their insecurities. cough Women’s sports. cough
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Oh my god I need hugsEnglish
2·4 days agoI think that for many people, not necessarily out of intentional malice, there is a sense of “control,” that is wanted, or alternatively “exclusivity.” A reason why if I ever did have a partner I would let them know(most likely candidate does) that unless my partner specifically wanted it, monogamy is not something that is in my realm of desire, not for my sake but that they do not feel unnecessarily bound.
People often want things to be “theirs.” It is an understandable selfishness, but it can be truly harmful when engaging in relationships, but is all too common to be seen.
I long for the days even of virtual cuddles, sadly the closest now for me would be presence in Bigscreen since other platforms are garbage and at least vibing to Game Grumps or the like would be possible, even though Bigscreen lacks a lot in terms of avatars and movement, since it is meant to be more of presence-over-action.
Though I only have one who rarely wants to(someone I have tried to court, but besides the point).
Interesting. By taking stuff, at the risk of prying(please tell me if so), are you referring to actual medicines or “sleep aid,” OTCs such as Melatonin supplements or the other strange concoctions on sale? Just curious because I had not a body-sleepy-mind-awake but did have a physically-ill effect from OTCs outside of Melatonin(which did not help much either).
But yeah, everyone’s body is different. Hopefully you can find a way to help your sleep during those times!
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg🕸️irl
16·5 days ago“I like trains.”
And that face on leftie in that final shot is such a mood.

Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•stay positive and turn the calendar gay y'allEnglish
10·5 days agoAll day every day, Love and pride for all, It’s snowing on Mt.Fuji.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Oh my god I need hugsEnglish
8·5 days agoBut theyre either in relationships so that would be considered cheating, or they would consider my request as me being interested romantically.
The latter is unfortunately the natural assumption in the physical reality because oh what a travesty, someone wants to non-romantically non-sexually feel the warmth and comfort of another! Wild concept for folks.
But to touch on the first part, because of the latter half it would likely be seen that way(ugh), but in terms of the actual truth of the matter, it would not be cheating in the slightest. To me it would be insecurity to believe that giving a friend warmth and comfort is to believe that your partner is cheating on you.
Ill try to be more positive.
Say what is on your mind as you need to dearest sister, we are here to listen and we love you!
Perhaps temperature related? And nyanpasu~!
For me it is an every day thing. Sleepy always, but actually going to sleep is a problem. I get treated for it and the medicine works wonders whenever I finally take it, just sometimes takes me a bit to want to. You could always ask your Doctor about Mirtazapine or Trazodone.
The embodiment of cute resides far and wide across this corner of the network, And that includes you, the cutie reading this message.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How's your week been?English
4·5 days agoOvertime where we can, durchhalten my friend. Never a bad time to accept some extra cheddar.
Though I am not quite sure if you are saying you got to go see your doctor or not(cannot tell by the wording), if not I hope you can get that rescheduled soon!
And kitty~! Kitty time is good time.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How's your week been?English
3·6 days agoIt was certainly something. Not awful, not amazing, just something. Still building out my library of books, but slowing the pace down. Been having a lot of good reads though, thankfully not many have had to be put on the shelf of shame or outright returned due to being of low quality or “fair attempt, not my speed.” The ones I keep usually are the latter, where I can respect what was trying to be done, but just was not into it.
Always a pleasure seeing the lovely folks across Blahaj Zone, which has been a highlight as usual to my days.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Yuri memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•but they're really good 🥺
13·6 days agoI only just now realized having looked at this image a few times now that the wording is “every time,” not “for every time.” Either way is funny, but I like to imagine one extra cookie is made for each additional time.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Average wfh uniformEnglish
10·6 days agoVery very nice, you look absolutely lovely!
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•They Can Never Get Rid Us
5·6 days agoAccidental ally moment in 4K. Dead and gone, buried with the rest of the shit the cultists feign worship to while singing songs about sinning the day before their weekly cleansing.
Flüstrat [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•They Can Never Get Rid Us
4·6 days agoOoo, I like this. I like this a lot.








Dearest, you are who you are, and you said who you were at the start: “I’m trans.”
There is no “right way,” to be a girlie, and those who try to gatekeep need to meditate on themselves. You are a girl.