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  • MoonChild@lemmy.caM
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    3 months ago

    Just watched it and it sounds made up and she would have told this story over and over by now if it was true.

    How about the story before that one about seeing women on the street. I screamed outloud when she said the one wasn’t dressed for a boy - this is how she thinks. She dresses for the male gaze all the time and she said it out loud! And then she said the outfit was for her - Sarah - has she ever thought, just once, people dress to please themselves. They choose outfits they like, that are comfortable and make them feel good. We don’t choose clothes thinking about people looking at us. That’s what Sarah does.

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      Thank you! My thoughts exactly. I dress for the occasion, I dress for myself, I dress for comfort or purpose. I love fashion and dressing up but never have I done it for a man or other women. That’s not the point of loving fashion. She just told on herself in the LOUDEST way. She dresses for attention and that’s it. Maybe that’s why her outfits always suck. They don’t have love or self expression behind them. It’s just “how can I be the hottest in the room and get all eyes on me?”

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          If you wear something like she did on her birthday, you have to have the confidence to pull it off. The personality for you to wear the outfit. Her outfits wear her, so they come off even worse. She was hiding and cowering into herself. If you are going to act that way, why even bother?!

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      Yupp 100% made up and then she follows up “this girl is actually a teacher at M’s school and I asked her about it once but she didn’t remember” of course she didn’t because it’s all made up lol.

      I had to go back and listen again because I spaced out the first time and omg you’re so right!!! She’s like soooo marveled that someone is out there just dressing for themselves and not for attention. I’ve legit never dressed thinking of other people, only myself and what’s comfy. Everything she wears she plans it in her mind of how it’ll appeal to other people, she never looks comfy in what she wears so clearly it’s never for herself and only for attention. Can’t wait to see the attention grabbing Beetlejuice outfit.

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        Can you even imagine living your life like that? She’s always thinking about people looking at her and judging her. It’s really not a healthy way to live. I’m like you - I dress for myself and really don’t think about what others might think.