Seriously, I found my sister (who’s nearly 30) watching a silly video about “feminists doing men’s work”, basically just a hate compilation of tiktoks and a chud yelling at the camera about evil leftists and stuff like that.

How the fuck do you stay happy watching this slop? It’s just constant hateful bullshit, I’m surprised we don’t see more terrorism from this stuff being consumed by millions of people everyday.

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    I don’t think they do. I think (maybe like us) the stress and cortisol and need to be “informed” becomes a habit. I forget the science but it’s much easier to create a bad vibe than make someone feel good, and playing on fear and anxiety keeps people glued to the news.

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      Exactly this. I like to say that they are stuck on the lowest rung of the dopamine reward ladder (is cortisol what I should be saying).

      They get their jollies from hitting the hate button, and they are addicted to it. They don’t know how to be properly happy.

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      I admit that the first few months of my planting and house renovation project felt a lot like a detox from being mad at the kind of bazinga assholes I had to deal with every day at work (and at home) in CA. Being that far away from them in a very different (and admittedly hard to adapt to) environment made me less irritable overall and I still feel more mellow on average than I used to now.

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        there’s hate-slop here but with legitimate reasons for hate due to seeing the evils in the world for what they are glasses-on unlike chuds angry for manufactured agenda reasons

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          Yeah, it’s not that the “is your hatred pure” legitimate or unwarranted, but being in the state of arousal, of being under threat and distressed that it creates, can become “normal” enough that it feels weird when it is absent.

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        Both parties can be very driven to seek out information that is distressing. Idk about them, but I do it bc i feel a constant need to be aware, to know what’s happening, both bc i feel it might some day help me to change things, and because remaining ignorant feels like abandoning some duty. Whereas they’re seeking out bs about “illegals” doing crimes. But they think they’re being informed about threats they face, and that they need to keep seeking that “information” (fash propaganda) out to be “informed” and protect themselves.

        The reasons and goals are quite different, but both groups are exposed to a great deal of stress.