Update: I contacted with current big owners, other older friends and lastly from some friends from here. Mostly all of them living in US so they don’t want/can’t host it. So I’ll keep hosting without being on moderation side. @gavi@lemmynsfw.com will post about details I guess. @gavi@lemmynsfw.com is the new top admin.

As you know, it has been 2 weeks since I opened the instance and it has grown quite a lot. Likewise, the time I have to devote to this work has increased a lot.

I’m dealing with lemmynsfw more than my IRL job right now :D This is bothering me. Also, having an NSFW instance instead of a normal instance makes things much more difficult. If you remember; I had my biggest scale fuck up with the post “we allow loli content” :) This situation wore me out. Also a lot of problems are bothering me, both as a software and as a community.

That’s why I’m thinking of transferring the instance and the domain to a person I trust. Who can maintain the deployments and also know this stuff. I will also roll over any donations made, excluding the current month’s expenses.

I’m sorry if I’ve upset anyone. That’s all from me.

  • Mikey Mongol @lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
    2·
    1 year ago

    Hey just a quick FYI, if anyone here in the US is thinking of taking this instance over, I would strongly recommend becoming extremely familiar with correctly implementing section 230 of the Communications Decency Act and related laws. And I don’t mean just reading it and thinking “I am a smart person, I get this now”. I mean learning how large social media sites and their T&S teams actually implement it for real. Otherwise you will very possibly go to a PMITA prison and wind up on the sex offender registry.

    I’m not messing with you. The feds do not fuck around with this stuff.

    • danc4498@lemmy.worldEnglish
      0·
      1 year ago

      This is an interesting point. I am reading this from a different instance. I wonder if merely federating with this instance from a US based instance requires the same thing.

      • Mikey Mongol @lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
        1·
        1 year ago

        Well, there’s a discussion on the lemmy github that sort of touches on this issue, because right now instances cache federated content. So let’s say somebody posts a bunch of illegal content here, and before it gets nuked by mods it gets federated to beehaw, which caches the material. Now beehaw is technically hosting illegal material, and they may not even realize it.

        • Guy_Fieris_Hair@lemmy.worldEnglish
          0·
          1 year ago

          Honestly would make more sense if everyone defederated it for this reason. If you want lemmy.nsfw, go to lemmy.nsfw. That way none of the other instances have that risk. And I personally would be fine if NSFW didn’t show up randomly in my feed. When I want to see it I can swap profiles or switch instances.

          • Mikey Mongol @lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
            0·
            1 year ago

            Sure, but that disincentivises people from posting and participating in the community, because forcing people to have two profiles is a significant barrier. Easier and better to just implement not caching images flagged nsfw in the codebase

  • ChaoticNeutralCzech@beehaw.orgEnglish
    1·
    1 year ago

    Here is a list of NSFW subreddits that protested Reddit’s API changes (for various reasons, only included if they announced it beforehand). Perhaps you could convince some of their mods, most of which pissed at Reddit, to join lemmynsfw.com or even pick up where you left off.

    For clickable links, view this on Reddit

    Subset of this list and this list based on this scraper’s output as of approx. 2023-06-11T16:00:00Z. Additionally, if the subreddit was not available (private already) and bigger than 5k, a manual decision based on archive.org was made. The list is incomplete also because the original list is. No guarantees on the correctness or completeness of this data.

    1+ million:

    r/adorableporn
    r/Amateur
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    r/BiggerThanYouThought
    r/BreedingMaterial
    r/BustyPetite
    r/CollegeAmateurs
    r/creampies
    r/cumsluts
    r/CuteLittleButts
    r/GirlsFinishingTheJob
    r/gonewild30plus
    r/gonewildaudio
    r/gothsluts
    r/hentai
    r/holdthemoan
    r/LipsThatGrip
    r/milf
    r/nsfw_gifs
    r/NSFW411
    r/nsfwhardcore
    r/OnlyFans101
    r/OnOff
    r/palegirls
    r/PornID
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    r/PublicFlashing
    r/Pussy
    r/RealGirls
    r/SluttyConfessions
    r/squirting
    r/TinyTits
    r/WatchItForThePlot
    r/worldpolitics

    500k+:

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    r/bodyperfection
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    r/Braless
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    r/dirtypenpals
    r/Exxxtras
    r/facedownassup
    r/FestivalSluts
    r/Fingering
    r/FlashingGirls
    r/fortyfivefiftyfive
    r/GirlswithGlasses
    r/GoneMild
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    r/hugeboobs
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    r/WomenOfColor
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    r/cigars*
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    r/EdgingTalk
    r/Emily_Lynne
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    r/handinpanties
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    r/Oilpen*
    r/OnlyFansBlonde
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    r/Paizuri
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    r/Perky
    r/PetaJensen
    r/Playboy_Albums
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    r/promoteonlyfans
    r/realsexyselfies
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    r/RiskyPorn
    r/sextoys
    r/sexygirlsinjeans
    r/SiriPornstar
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    r/softies
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    r/SoloMasturbation
    r/spanking
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    r/StandingOut
    r/TheUnderboob
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    r/Thighs
    r/ZootopiaPorn

    50k+:

    r/18_22
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    r/AltBoobWorld
    r/animalcrossingr34
    r/asiangirlsbeingsexy
    r/AsianPussyAss
    r/baddragonfun
    r/bratlife
    r/chickswearingchucks
    r/dadbod
    r/DaddyPics
    r/DarkSidePlayground
    r/DeepthroatTube
    r/DIY_eJuice
    r/EdgeTogether
    r/FootjobCum
    r/FootTalk
    r/GayDaddiesPics
    r/gingerdudes
    r/Girlcum
    r/GWASapphic
    r/HorrorMovieNudes
    r/jolynehentai
    r/LadiesInLeather
    r/lipbite
    r/loona_nsfw
    r/LuckyPierre
    r/naturalpenis
    r/NoFansCouples
    r/OnlyFans101BrandNew
    r/OnlyFans101Inked
    r/OnlyFansNaturallyHot
    r/OnlyFansReds
    r/OnlyFansSHMILFS
    r/Oviposition
    r/Playboy_Gifs
    r/predicamentbondage
    r/PredicamentHentai
    r/r4rindia
    r/SensualMFM
    r/SexTips
    r/sextstories
    r/SloppyKissing
    r/Slutoon
    r/sportsbrasGW
    r/Stunners
    r/Sukebei
    r/Touhou_NSFW
    r/uncut_cock
    r/VentiHentai
    r/vore
    r/yaoigif
    r/yurigif

    * = Not porn but NSFL. This is a manually curated, not exhaustive list. No subs below were checked.

    5k+:

    r/AceAttorneyR34
    r/AltPussyWorld
    r/AngelinaMichelle
    r/AnimeMILFS_AI
    r/ankletporn
    r/ArtbonersGoneWild
    r/Artistic_Ecchi
    r/AustinHookup
    r/AussieCouples
    r/AussieDudes
    r/AussieMilfs
    r/AzurLaneEcchiHentai
    r/BaltimoreandDCr4r
    r/BDSMNot4Newbies
    r/beasissy
    r/bigsoftcock
    r/BimboHypno
    r/BlackGoddesses
    r/blackmale
    r/BleachedEdits
    r/BleachedFemboy
    r/bluelingerie
    r/Boob_Holes
    r/BreeDaniels
    r/BrOnlyFans
    r/bullypie
    r/ButtsInJeans
    r/CelebFapClub
    r/chastitysnook
    r/Cheetahfurs
    r/chubbypuss
    r/ChurchOfRikka
    r/CLTgonewild
    r/ComicPlot
    r/cultofthefranklin
    r/CuteTeasingGirls
    r/Cuteyiff
    r/CynthiaFucks
    r/daddybears
    r/DatV
    r/ddlb
    r/deerbutt
    r/DegreesOfLewdity
    r/DesiGoneWild
    r/DFWents
    r/dirtymitten
    r/DirtyWritingPrompts
    r/disturbingmovies
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    r/doublebarrel
    r/DragonYiff
    r/embarrassedyiff
    r/eroticpenpals
    r/EscapistPorn
    r/escortclientsonly
    r/FeetTouching
    r/fitfurs
    r/FootWorship
    r/furrybdsm
    r/furrylingerie
    r/FutaSub
    r/gayknots
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    r/Grandpasgonewild
    r/Hayasaka_NSFW
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    r/hentai_electricity
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    r/HighEndEscorts
    r/Inzestdoujinshi
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    r/KorraNSFW
    r/KrystalNSFW
    r/LadyBonersOver30
    r/landingstripnsfw
    r/LansingSex
    r/latexfetish
    r/leglocking
    r/londonr4r
    r/marriedsex
    r/MensSwimsuitChallenge
    r/MommyCock
    r/MSC_irl
    r/NicoletteSheaNew
    r/NoFansMild
    r/NSFWarframe
    r/OldDicks
    r/OnlyFans101Asstastic
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    r/OnlyFans101BadBitches
    r/OnlyFans101BustyBabes
    r/OnlyFans101Ebony
    r/OnlyFans101FitGirls
    r/OnlyFans101HotMomBods
    r/OnlyFans101Mouthfuls
    r/OnlyFans101TallGirls
    r/OnlyFansAPAC
    r/OnlyFansEasternEurope
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    r/OnlyFansFashionistas
    r/OnlyFansFootLovers
    r/OnlyFansJustRight
    r/OnlyFansNerdyGirls
    r/OnlyFansNeverNude
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    r/pussybukkake
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    • gavi@lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
      1·
      1 year ago

      As a heads up, I am more than willing to help with the front admin stuff, backend just isn’t my expertise. If someone is willing to do the backend more I can do more front end stuff. I’m experienced with management of large communities and would be comfortable approaching some of the current pressing issues in a transparent way as well as opening up some discussions with other instance admins to try and address their concerns. I’m honestly just approaching things the same way I did when dealing with a large minecraft server. Horny adults are just grown up feral teenagers, I guess.

  • stinky613@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish
    0·
    1 year ago

    You explicitly invited content that would be difficult to discern from illegal, underage nsfw content

    And that was a problem–Yeah, no shit

    To borrow from a comment about kbin: “Making that work requires more mods than a Bethesda game”

    I genuinely appreciate that you wanted and attempted to run an instance that would be largely nonjudgmental on content, but, damn, you really shouldn’t be surprised that inviting “loli” content would be (at the very least) an enormous challenge for moderation

    • Mikey Mongol @lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
      0·
      1 year ago

      Dude didn’t know what “loli” actually meant because he’s not a native English speaker. Cut the guy some slack already, it’s not cool to kick sometime when he’s down.