Out of the 5 relationships I’ve been in maybe two were ones that I initiated, and I don’t even consider myself to be that attractive. I’ve just had much better luck being a real person that someone wanted to like and letting things naturally develop than I ever did with that kind of behavior. In fact, some of the most cringey behavior of mine that I can remember is me directly and obviously showing interest in women who (looking back) clearly had no interest in me.
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Out of the 5 relationships I’ve been in maybe two were ones that I initiated, and I don’t even consider myself to be that attractive. I’ve just had much better luck being a real person that someone wanted to like and letting things naturally develop than I ever did with that kind of behavior. In fact, some of the most cringey behavior of mine that I can remember is me directly and obviously showing interest in women who (looking back) clearly had no interest in me.