• Semivir [he/him, she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    9 months ago

    Yeah, you aren’t obligated to like anal. And there are several reasons for (not) wanting to do it.

    You’re not even required by international sexual law to be even remotely interested in sticking your dick in anything. You do you, but be safe when you do!

    But just for context, for most people who engage in anal (both giving and receiving end), the feeling of taboo is part of the fun.

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      9 months ago

      I never thought of it as taboo? Its like the third most vanilla sex thing after vaginal and oral (which i also dont understand. There is a designated hole for the penis, and it doesnt even have teeth!)

      • Semivir [he/him, she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        9 months ago

        When I say taboo, I mean in the naughty sense. As in it feels kinky because you don’t understand why it turns you on, and you know it shouldn’t, but it does anyway.

        But hey, it’s not for everyone, and that’s okay.

          • Semivir [he/him, she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            9 months ago

            Yeah that’s a good point. That’s what I would call intelligent design. Take that, creationists!

            The “shouldn’t” aspect is more directly applicable to different kinds of kinks or fetishes. Anyone who has experienced what the… uh [checks notes]… “fun button” has to offer will probably tell you that the whole situation is not a coincidence.

            Or so I’ve heard… (they’ll buy that, right?)

        • TheSlad@sh.itjust.works
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          9 months ago

          Oh don’t worry im a freak in other ways ;)

          But also most parties I attend this topic is not broached.

          But also yes. In most parties I am that meme of the guy standing in the corner.