• SituationCake@aussie.zone
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    13 days ago

    As someone who has relatives in other countries that I barely know, I would say don’t put too much pressure on it. If you click well and become friends that’s really awesome. But if you haven’t had contact for a long time (or ever?), look at it like meeting a stranger. Not everyone will be compatible and if you don’t feel a connection that’s ok too.

    • Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone
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      13 days ago

      That’s good advice.

      I don’t want to get too close too quickly just for the sake of it.

      He’s from my mums side of the family, and they were kinda dicks after she passed away.