Flight instructor: “Do your best, lol.”

    • BillyClark@piefed.social
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      144
      arrow-down
      9
      ·
      3 days ago

      It’s similar to people who end themselves by stepping in front of a truck or a train. It can be extremely traumatic to the driver.

      • FiskFisk33@startrek.website
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        65
        arrow-down
        35
        ·
        3 days ago

        I disagree. Leaving someone with trauma, versus leaving someone in a life or death situation is quite different I’d say.

        • BillyClark@piefed.social
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          109
          arrow-down
          7
          ·
          3 days ago

          The similarity is involving people in the act and leaving them to deal with extreme trauma.

            • ByteJunk@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              53
              arrow-down
              7
              ·
              3 days ago

              This is the hill we’re choosing? Really?

              It’s a shitty thing to do to someone else, full stop.

              • timestatic@feddit.org
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                3
                ·
                edit-2
                2 days ago

                Yes both are shitty things. But still, I would much rather be:

                Traumatized for life vs. Traumatized for life + potentially die

                The train conductor is much more likely to walk another day to see their family again. Even if they are really fucking traumatized. Its doing a suicide traumatizing someone vs traumatizing someone and potentially taking them with me to death

                • PapaStevesy@lemmy.world
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  2
                  ·
                  2 days ago

                  All they said was that they’re similar, which they are. Out of all the experiences you could possibly have at any point in space and time in the entire universe, these two are actually very fucking similar.

              • ScoopMcPoops@lemmy.world
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                6
                arrow-down
                2
                ·
                3 days ago

                I mean he’s right about the suicide thing. Its the difference between traumatizing someone and taking them with you. Both are terrible, sure, no one is denying that. But one of these involves killing (or at least attempting to) somebody. So yes, murder is worse than giving someone PTSD.

                • PapaStevesy@lemmy.world
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  2
                  ·
                  2 days ago

                  People in the cars in car accidents can die too y’know. Plus the driver doesn’t necessarily know the person is committing suicide, making them think they’re a murderer. The word that was used to compare the two was “similar”, I truly don’t see how anyone could argue they’re dissimilar. No one said they were exactly equal.

                  • timestatic@feddit.org
                    link
                    fedilink
                    English
                    arrow-up
                    3
                    ·
                    2 days ago

                    Because that was the comparison being made. Of course you should do neither, but the initial commenter was basically equating the two

            • BillyClark@piefed.social
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              29
              arrow-down
              4
              ·
              3 days ago

              According to other people in this thread, she had at least enough flight experience that she should be able to land solo. So, the risk to her was from the trauma he inflicted, if it impeded her ability to land safely. Explaining it here actually makes it seem even more similar to the truck driver. It’s entirely possible that if you hit a person with a truck, you’d freeze up or your mind would blank or you’d otherwise be unable to control yourself well and cause further accidents before you could stop safely.

              • Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                2
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                3 days ago

                According to other people in this thread, she had…

                Fun way to admit you don’t read articles.

                • BillyClark@piefed.social
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  6
                  arrow-down
                  1
                  ·
                  3 days ago

                  Or, hear me out… I read the article and that’s how I knew that information wasn’t in the article.

                  I’m really conflicted about you. Part of me really likes people who encourage others to read the articles, but reading the articles isn’t the only important thing. Understanding is also important.

                  • Hacksaw@lemmy.ca
                    link
                    fedilink
                    English
                    arrow-up
                    2
                    ·
                    2 days ago

                    The information was in the article. She had her pilots license and was doing the training only to maintain currency.

        • rumba@lemmy.zip
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          7
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          3 days ago

          Yeah, I’m driving home from a late work shift, 3am.

          My MF neighbor’s adult kid had layed down in the road right past a blind curve hoping someone would run over him and kill him. Good thing my driveway was less than a couple hundred feet away and I was going slow enough to swerve around him.

          F’d em up for a bit and I didn’t even kill him

    • 0xDREADBEEF@lemmy.dbzer0.com
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      9
      arrow-down
      6
      ·
      3 days ago

      Expecting anything more from a dead person is kinda pointless though. It’s like crying about spilled milk. Nothing you or anyone can do about it—dead people are not able to be guilty of anything. The only guilt a dead person can have is the one assigned by yourself. Not you specifically, but anyone who wants dead people to be guilty of something. Dead people are not able to change behavior or learn from their choices or bring justice to any further victims. Expecting that is a futile effort.

    • devfuuu@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      2 days ago

      Exactly. Imagine continuing to drive something against the wishes of others. The plan was to crash.