Thought in my head about if you suspect someone of being poly and your interested them, is it worth asking?
This does relate to my previous post and I like the “just flirt” route since its got the best case for it
Thought in my head about if you suspect someone of being poly and your interested them, is it worth asking?
This does relate to my previous post and I like the “just flirt” route since its got the best case for it
Yup.
And then in my experience, I go. “Oh. Dang”
I was a bit young and just fell silent, because they included it in their greeting, when I was a guest at their place
Yeah, she was pretty and I would have tried, if I would have had the confidence, but even with the invitation, I stepped back
Anyway I’m not really big on one night stands, I need to have some emotional connection. Else it just feels like wanking into a women.
But that’s me and others probably would have taken that invitation
I guess there is a gender aspect as well. One of my dude friends casually mentioned they were poly when talking about relationships. Nothing out of the ordinary, really. Just “oh, cool”.
This girl I knew who I was a bit on the fence about invited me on a date and showed up with two other guys. I don’t have a problem with one night stands, but I have literally no interest in sharing. Then she got real mad when I didn’t try to hook up with her then and there. I didn’t even realize it was a poly thing until later that night, I thought she intended a platonic hang and I was the crazy one that thought it was a date.
Not sure, I’m a dude and it was the guy of the couple mentioning it at a hello
But anyway, that was a really different situation than most people will get into - and I don’t want to explain that more
Edit: on second read, it seems we were in kinda the same situation ;-)