I am thinking of sending this to my youngest son, who I have been estranged with for a year, due to his fascistic and misogynistic arguments. Keep in mind that we argued about this for hours.
My email below:
First, I want to apologize for cutting you off. We have philosophical and fundamental differerences, but cutting you off from me is not acceptable. I apologize for doing that.
Second,
I apologize for being a shitty father to you. I know that I could have done better, and yet I didn’t.
I am sorry.
Third, I would like to reconcile, on your time, and on your terms. Let me know if you want to talk about it further. I would like to start this discussion before we meet again in person at your grandfather’s birthday.
If he really is a fascist an misogynist beyond repair, don’t bother, it’s not worth your time and energy. Believe me, I’ve been in the same situation with my brother. If you think he’s just being stupid, send him that email and tell him you love him and miss him


