Dazharion@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Queer_IRL@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 months agoDon't_IRLlemmy.dbzer0.comimagemessage-square17linkfedilinkarrow-up1168arrow-down13
arrow-up1165arrow-down1imageDon't_IRLlemmy.dbzer0.comDazharion@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Queer_IRL@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 months agomessage-square17linkfedilink
minus-squareSharpiemarker@startrek.websitelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up48·6 months agoI love that explanation that goes “homophobic men are worried that gay men will treat them like homophobic men treat women.”
minus-squareMinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down1·6 months agoi prefer the explanation that goes men have been in locker rooms and heard what shit other men said in grade school. i’d choose the bear too.
minus-squareDragonTypeWyvern@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up3·6 months agoI actually never heard that kind of talk in grade school, or rather it was already getting pushback 🤷♂️
minus-squareMinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·6 months agoi’m older xenniel, so like i heard it from the lads born in the 70s but didn’t repeat it. telling them to knock it off just made you a target so after the first few times you keep your head down. kind of like here, now that i notice.
I love that explanation that goes “homophobic men are worried that gay men will treat them like homophobic men treat women.”
i prefer the explanation that goes men have been in locker rooms and heard what shit other men said in grade school. i’d choose the bear too.
I actually never heard that kind of talk in grade school, or rather it was already getting pushback 🤷♂️
i’m older xenniel, so like i heard it from the lads born in the 70s but didn’t repeat it. telling them to knock it off just made you a target so after the first few times you keep your head down.
kind of like here, now that i notice.