I’ll start: if they have hobbies it’s a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.

  • foggy@lemmy.world
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    3 years ago

    It is so close to accurate to say “they accept you at your worst,” but we all know the toxic “if you can’t accept me at my worst…” Kinda people.

    Id say it’s more like

    1. History of self advocacy and/or intolerance for their own mistreatment

    2. They accept or at least make an effort to understand you when you’re at your low points.

    These two together kind of ensure no issues fester or arise in a manner such that they’re not dealt with.