Honestly, most people will never attend a very formal funeral. Wear your blue suit. If you come to mine I hereby grant permission to wear jeans and a band or nerd T-shirt. It’s very indicative of what I wore most of my life up to this point even if I dress better now when I leave the house.
I don’t think most people care as long as you are trying.
You’re not going to the Pope’s funeral.
Honestly, most people will never attend a very formal funeral. Wear your blue suit. If you come to mine I hereby grant permission to wear jeans and a band or nerd T-shirt. It’s very indicative of what I wore most of my life up to this point even if I dress better now when I leave the house.
I don’t think most people care as long as you are trying.