• cm0002@lemmy.worldOP
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    12 hours ago

    “I can fix them…” ~Common thought in an abusive relationship

    It’s not going to work, at best they see themselves as a “missionary” whose purpose is to convert us from our “ways” and they’re not going to allow themselves to be converted.

    • lennybird@lemmy.world
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      11 hours ago

      Conservatives do change. Exposure is key. We’re where we are at because the rich have isolated us in echo-chambers. Speaking as a former conservative whose entire family across 3 generations shifted to the left. I caution your thinking they’re a lost cause.

      It’s less about an abusive relationship and getting them therapy.

      • LuckingFurker (Any/All)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        10 hours ago

        Some can and do, increasingly we’re in an age where conservativism is a dogma akin to a religion (and often entwined with it, of course) and that won’t change. I don’t think we need to shun all conservatives but we need to have a low tolerance for them if they don’t show that inclination. Being conciliatory to these people, by and large, is what has gotten us to this point